Is it better for a woman to have a baby earlier? For your own health, don't trust other people's concept of fertility
A very real problem faced by many young people today is that they are urged to have children by their families. Despite the constant urging from their families, most young people are still reluctant to have children for the time being, because there are too many things to consider in the future. Now, my life is in the rising period of my career, it is the time of hard work and hard work. Everyone is reluctant to have children at this time. Many parents will say that the earlier the child is born, the better for women, so it is really as parents say. Did you say so? If it is for the sake of their own health, women are best not to listen to other people's concept of fertility.
In fact, giving birth to a child is not as simple as what parents say, as long as you give birth as soon as possible, you need to make adequate preparations to give birth to a child.
The first is the family's experience foundation, that is, the economic strength. It is very important for a family to have a good economic strength. Before giving birth, you need to prepare a lot of nutritional products, and you must be able to provide mothers and children during the birth process. Material support, especially after the child is born, from the child's food, clothing, housing and transportation, to the child's education and training, marriage and childbirth, these are all things that parents need to consider, and these all require a lot of money to support of. Having a good economic foundation will also make the family atmosphere better. A good family atmosphere is also very important. After the birth of a child, the most important influence on the family atmosphere is the quality of the family atmosphere. Having a good family atmosphere will have an indirect impact. To the child also becomes very good, and vice versa will have a bad impact on the child.
After talking about the material conditions, the next step is the mental dedication and preparation of both parents. Since you choose to have children, you have an extra responsibility on your shoulders. In your daily life, you must not only take care of yourself, but also others and children. You can no longer treat yourself as a son or daughter, but as a responsible parent, ready to accept the pressure and many problems your child brings to you.
So are children born for retirement?
In fact, it is not. With the development of society, people's living standards are getting better and better. Many elderly people can get care and subsidies from the state after retirement. Most of the elderly do not have great needs for children, and they cannot be fully guaranteed. When the child grows up, he will still be able to take care of his own family and the elderly, so having children is not entirely for old age.
As time goes on, more and more families have their own children, and more and more people realize that the purpose of having children is not just for old age, let alone for old age. The elderly have a sense of respect and concern. It is their duty to support the elderly. Children are more of a continuation of their own lives from the previous generation. children can do better,
Faced with the matter of whether to have a child early, it should be decided based on the actual situation of the family itself. After all, having a child is not a trivial matter for many young people, and they have to bear more pressure and difficulties. Many young people work hard. In order to live a better life, how do you feel about having children?