Cute baby and her father encountered roadblocks, but were resolved by baby's wit. Netizen: Fortunately, stupid genes are not inherited
Children are the top priority of a family. Parents put education and raising their children first. But caring for children also requires technology. In the past, most of the "technical work" of taking care of children was done by mothers, but now more and more fathers have begun to join the army of raising children.
It's a bit "thick" when a father takes a child. The style of bringing children can be said to be "unrestrained". But don't worry, after all, the fathers are slowly improving. In a recent video on Weibo, there is a scene of a father taking his child to the street together. In the video, the father is walking and playing with his mobile phone, while the child obediently follows his father one step away. As I walked, the road was blocked in front of me. There were two barricades placed there, and a rope broke down in the middle of the barricades, and there were small colored flags on the rope. The height of this rope is nothing for adults, and it can be easily stepped over, but it is a little high for the baby who is following behind the father. The rope just reaches the child's shoulder, and the child can't get over it by himself. After Dad stepped over the rope, he waited on the other side to see what the child would do. As a result, the baby paused and didn't intend to go to the rope at all. Instead, they bypassed the ropes and barricades and came from the other half of the road. And the father didn't seem to think that the child would do this.
Netizens left a message on Weibo saying: "I thought the baby would get through it, but it turned around.", "It's not that parents are the best teachers for their children, why did this turn over?", "Son : If you want to trick me, there is no way!"
Many fathers are not ready to take care of their children, and they are too "easy" to take care of their children. Some dads and babies are sleeping, and dads play with mobile phones; when babies eat complementary food, dads play with mobile phones; when babies do handicrafts, dads play with mobile phones; when babies fall, dads still play with mobile phones... Although some dads are not qualified dads, but There are many benefits to having fathers take care of their children.
Scientists at Yale University in the United States conducted a 15-year follow-up survey, comparing some children raised by fathers with children raised by mothers, and tracked the children's situation. The findings show that children raised by fathers have higher IQs and generally do better in school.
In addition, GlennT Stanton, a senior lecturer of the American Family Love Association, also put forward this point of view: having a father involved in a child's growth will make the child more compassionate, healthier and cheerful, more perseverance and exploration spirit, and more focused. . And it makes it easier for kids to succeed.
Why are there so many benefits for fathers to have children?
The reason is that the father's way of thinking and doing things is different from the mother's. Fathers have more linear thinking, which can bring logical and methodical thinking ability to children, so as to help children establish the foundation of rational thinking and understand the essence of things. And most men can stick to principles better than women, which is conducive to establishing a sense of rules and order in children's minds. Making children better at obeying order, and at the same time being more sensitive to understanding various rules, can often take the lead. In other respects, fathers can take their children to carry out more exploratory and developmental activities, broaden their thinking, and enhance their hands-on ability, which is very helpful to their children.
Fathers with children can bring many benefits to their children. Of course, it does not mean that the child can be directly handed over to the father without the participation of the mother. Many facts show that children who have both parents involved in their education develop better. Therefore, mothers can also give fathers some patience and let fathers also participate in the growth of their children. There are mothers who give their children careful care and care, and let fathers accompany their children to play and learn, so that children can grow happier and more comprehensively.