When your child was taken by his father, netizens: I really wish I could kick that person down!
When it comes to fathers taking children, they will only be collectively complained by mothers. Dad and Mom were originally a pair of teammates, but every time Mom gave the baby to the pig teammates, there was only one result - the pit baby.
The mother teases the baby to make the child happy; the father teases the baby to make himself happy. Just as netizens joked: Dad brings the baby, just live!
There is such a video on Weibo that the father took the child, and the mother filmed such a video. The cat, the child and the father are lying on the bed together. The child is playing on his own, while the cat is watching over him. The father is different. The father is playing with his mobile phone with his back to the child. This was seen by the mother who entered the door. The mother was very angry and wanted to kick the father down.
Netizens commented in succession, some said: "The child is so good, play with your own hahaha." Some said: "It's obviously the cat is taking care of the child, hahahaha, the cat is so good." Some said: "It's okay. , The cat is watching. Hahahaha, I hope my mother will be gentler when she starts."
Maybe such a scene is all too familiar to my mother, and my father is automatically classified as an unreliable pig teammate by my mother. But in fact, these seemingly unreliable fathers are more conducive to the growth of their children.
But dad doesn't know his own importance, so how to be the perfect novice dad?
- The best love a father can give his child is to love his mother
A father loves his mother, respects his mother, does not often make his mother angry, and does not need to explain much truth, which is the best education for his children. The way fathers and mothers get along is to set an example for children, so that children learn to get along with the opposite sex, learn how to love, and respect the other half in the process of getting along with their parents.
If the father does not take up this responsibility, then the child will replace this position to protect the mother, or even oppose the father, and various psychological problems will occur later.
- Participate in every stage of your child's development
First of all, don't let father become a title. Children don't have a deep understanding of family members when they are young, and they need to continuously cultivate feelings to improve. The relationship between father and son is deep, and the education process will be smoother in the future. The father is unfamiliar, so when the father educates the child, he cannot blame the child for being disobedient.
- Lead by example and be a good example
In life, I often see my father holding a mobile phone, but asking the child to do homework seriously, my father lying on the sofa, but asking the child to sit properly, and the father spitting, but asking the child to talk about hygiene......
Dads need to infuse their children with the positive energy of the sun in their actions and words. In this way, children can develop excellent character in life.
- Increase the interaction and communication between parents and children
In the process of companionship, try to have as much physical contact as possible, pat the child on the shoulder, touch the child's head, hug the child, etc. In the process of listening, parents can respond more to show that they are listening carefully.
The main reason is that parents need to devote themselves to their children, the easier it is to find the correct way of education, and to accept and agree with the father's education, in order to become better people.
- Don't be condescending with children
One of the mistakes that fathers can easily make when educating their children is that they are impatient! If the child is disobedient, the tone may immediately become irritable, and even hands-on, the result of the beating is that the child succumbs, or the child resists. Both ways are extreme. Every child has his own thoughts. Only by treating every child in an equal way can a father understand and recognize the child and make the child feel respected.
Fathers are busy with their careers, although it is hard, but don’t forget the children at home, take time away from the computer and the wine table, play sports and play with the children, and listen to him tell, cook for him a few times, and later you will find that the children will be Daddy's actions and words produce admiration and joy. Isn't this the proudest and happiest thing for every father?