When your child is taken by his own father, netizens: I really want to kick that person off!
When it comes to fathers taking care of their children, they will only be complained by mothers collectively. Dad and mother were originally a pair of teammates, but every time the mother gave the baby to the pig teammate, there was only one result-the pit baby.
Mothers tease their babies to make them happy; fathers tease their babies to make themselves happy. Just like netizens ridiculed: Dad takes the baby, just live!
There is such a video on Weibo that complains about the father taking the children, and the mother shot such a video. The cat, the child, and the father are lying on the bed together. The child is playing on his own, while the cat is looking after him. The father is different. The father is playing with the phone with his back to the child. This was seen by the mother who entered the door. The mother was very angry and wanted to kick Dad down.
Netizens commented one after another, some said: "The child is so good, play with yourself hahaha." Some said: "This is obviously a cat taking care of the child, hahahaha, the cat is so good." Others said: "It's okay , the cat is watching. Hahahaha, I hope my mother will be gentler when she strikes."
Maybe such a scene is all too familiar to my mother, and my father is automatically classified as an unreliable pig teammate by my mother. But in fact, these seemingly unreliable fathers are more conducive to the growth of children.
But dad doesn't know the importance of himself, so how to be a perfect novice dad?
- The best love a father can give a child is to love his mother
Father loves mother, respects mother, doesn't often make mother angry, and doesn't need to talk about many principles, which is the best education for children. The way fathers and mothers get along is to set an example for children, so that children can learn how to get along with the opposite sex, learn how to love, and respect the other half in the relationship between parents.
If the father does not take up this responsibility, the child will take over this position to protect the mother, and even the father will fight against it, and various psychological problems will appear later.
- Participate in every stage of children's growth
First of all, don’t let father become a title. Children’s awareness of family members is not deep when they are young. They need to cultivate their feelings to improve. The relationship between father and son is deep, and the education process will be smoother in the future. If the father is unfamiliar, then the father cannot blame the child for being disobedient when educating the child.
- Lead by example and be a good example
In life, I often see fathers holding mobile phones but asking children to do their homework seriously; fathers lying on the sofa but asking children to sit properly; fathers spitting everywhere but asking children to pay attention to hygiene...
Dad needs to inject positive energy into the child's actions and language. This can create a child's excellent character in life.
- Increase the interaction and communication between parents and children
In the process of companionship, try to have as much physical contact as possible, pat the child on the shoulder, touch the child's head, hug the child, etc. In the process of listening, parents can respond more to show that they are listening carefully.
The main reason is that parents need to devote themselves to their children, the easier it is to find the correct education method, and accept and agree with the father's education, in order to become a better person.
- Don’t be condescending with your children
A father is prone to make a mistake when educating his children, that is, he is impatient! If a child is disobedient, his tone of voice may immediately become irritable, and he may even fight. The result of beating is that the child submits, or the child resists. Both ways are extreme. Every child has his own thoughts. Only by treating each child equally can the father understand and recognize the child and make the child feel respected.
Fathers are busy with their careers, although it is hard work, but don’t forget the children at home. Take time away from the computer and the wine table, play sports and play with the children, listen to him, and cook for him a few times. Father's deeds and words generate admiration and joy. Isn't this the proudest and happiest thing for every father?