The cute baby was obsessed with a 'tail' in the mall, and the next move made everyone laugh: dumbfounded

Children often have the most curiosity. Curiosity is very important to a person. Curiosity can drive children to bravely explore the world and get the knowledge they want. This kind of knowledge gained through exploration is often Most importantly, many parents always need to face various questions from children when they are with their children: What kind of animal is this? What is this for? How is this done? Parents are overwhelmed by one after another. This time, let’s analyze why children have so much curiosity, and how parents should deal with it!

Children's curiosity is always inexplicable, always so sudden, sometimes when the father takes his daughter to the toilet, the daughter will ask him curiously, "Dad, why does your bird grow hair?" This makes Dad very embarrassed. For children, some questions are not malicious, and they are just full of curiosity about some strange things. Why does it rain? Why do birds fly, and even why do they eat? These are things that children are curious about. In fact, for adults, these things seem to be normal.

Recently, there was a kid on Weibo who made many netizens laugh: In the video, a little sister is doing cosplay. She is imitating the mage Daji in the game of Glory of Kings. Because Daji is a fox, there is a tail behind her buttocks. It happened to be seen by a little boy. The child seemed to be surprised by this little sister. Maybe this little boy has never seen a human with a long tail. He hid somewhere to look at this little sister, and unconsciously touched the little girl with his hands. My sister's tail, until the young lady found out about this kid, the kid just squatted there and stared blankly at the young lady, his face full of disbelief.

Netizens were also amused by this kid after seeing it, and commented one after another:

A: Hahaha, the kid was stunned. He must have thought that this young lady has evolved!

B: Hahahahaha. Children are so curious!

C: He might just want to see where the tail is stuck, the kid must be terrified!

The age when children's curiosity explodes is usually three to four years old, and some children even start to have various questions when they are two years old. According to research by British psychologists, four-year-old children ask about 70 questions a day on average. The question is called the peak of curiosity, and more than half of the parents have no way to answer it, because the children's questions are too weird. In fact, they will be curious after the baby is born. From what they hear, see, They will have all kinds of thoughts in their hearts, but their language skills are extremely lacking, and they don't know how to ask!

So how should parents respond to children's strange questions?

Sometimes children will ask some shy questions, why does daddy have birds and mother doesn't, why do you break your ass every month? Why do mom and dad fight at night? Then, in the face of these problems, parents must not scold their children in anger, because there is actually a parent-child principle in it, that is, the more open the parents are to their children's problems, the healthier the children's psychology will be in the future.

Some children asked these questions when they were young. If they were scolded, criticized, or even punished by adults, it was a normal question because of embarrassment, embarrassment, or incorrect thinking of adults. Therefore, thinking that you have asked bad questions, or even that your heart is dirty, this kind of shame will hinder the child's future mental health, and the child's creativity will be affected, because curiosity is the source of creativity. Children can no longer ask questions, and their curiosity cannot be satisfied. Children gradually become less fond of asking questions? Curiosity is thus extinguished, and the wellspring of creativity dries up.

Faced with children's curiosity, parents can generally answer directly, but their children often have only one answer, and sometimes due to knowledge and experience, the answers given are limited. In addition, there is a habit of asking questions, which will lead to Children don't like to think, and their creativity will also be affected. Therefore, when faced with children's questions, the ideal answer is to ask the children "what do you think?" Guide children to think, and you can also accompany them to find answers. The purpose behind these behaviors of parents is to help children understand that when they don’t know the answer, they should find ways to find answers in their own way. Children can not only find rich answers, but also It is also a good habit to look for answers through your own abilities. And parents should not "pretend to understand"

So if parents don’t understand, let’s accompany their children to find the answer. A child’s desire for knowledge is a small flame. If parents actively encourage and respond to their children’s questions, the small flame of their child’s desire for knowledge will turn into a big fireball. Future life will also benefit endlessly.