The cute baby was aggrieved and asked why she was not on the marriage certificate, and the next behavior made the netizens laugh: very cute
As children grow up, there will be countless questions in their heads, and many strange questions will pop up when they see new things. It is very similar to the theme song of the cartoon "Big Ear Tutu" when I was a child. Why do children have to be obedient, why do fathers love mothers, and why do they keep drooling when they see ice cream. In fact, when children are growing up, they have strong curiosity and a strong desire to explore the world. They hope that parents can give answers to their own questions.
When parents face their children's nonsensical questions, they are entangled in their hearts, and they don't know how to explain this question. Sometimes it always makes parents dumbfounded. A popular video on Weibo recorded a day when a child suffered from grievances. The reason for this was that the child accidentally discovered that there were photos of his parents in a red book, but not himself. This wronged the child badly, she tearfully asked why her mother didn't have her, and she had to stick her ID photo on it. The child's behavior made the mother dumbfounded. For a while, she didn't know how to explain to the child that this was a marriage certificate.
Seeing the child's aggrieved expression made many netizens happy, and couldn't help teasing, "My child: We have such a good relationship, but you didn't call me when you got married." I only love my dad and don’t love her." "My son comforted himself and said: I guess I was at grandma's house that day, so I didn't see you getting married." The various sharing of netizens let everyone see the cuteness and innocence of the child, and at the same time, the parents will also Think about some questions.
What is the impact if there is no answer to the child?
When the child's curiosity is not properly responded, the child's thirst for knowledge will gradually disappear after a long time, and he will lose interest in learning. When children begin to have a desire to explore, parents should establish the best learning methods and cultivate children's learning initiative. When children ask questions, parents should take them seriously, broaden children's knowledge, and protect children's curiosity.
When a child asks "why", what should parents do?
1: Encourage children to ask questions
The correct way for parents to protect their children's curiosity is to encourage children to guide them to ask various questions. Encouragement is a kind of reinforcement and affirmation for children. Parents should help their children think, find answers to questions together, and use various methods to look up information and do experiments together.
2: Solve problems with children and increase children's confidence
Some children's curiosity may only last for a period of time, and they have the idea of giving up when they don't get the answer, and feel that the process of exploration is boring. At this time, parents should actively encourage their children, try to find answers with them, encourage them verbally, and increase their confidence in exploration.
3: Guide children to observe life and stimulate children's interest
Parents can help their children think better. It is better to learn the origin and reason of these knowledge with children than to tell more truths to children. Children's curiosity and desire for knowledge are the driving force for children's learning. Parents' encouragement and support and correct methods are the best exploration methods for children in the learning process.
Children will do some things that cannot get results in the process of exploring knowledge. Parents should not interfere with the children, and try to let the children get the answer by themselves and give up after getting the result. Every child is a natural genius, curiosity will help them on the road to success. Little teenagers are infinitely wise, parents, don't underestimate the children!