The 100-year-old great-grandfather embraced his great-great-grandson for the first time, and the great-great-grandson looked at his great-grandfather obsessively.

With the continuous development of society and the continuous improvement of people's living standards, children are like treasures to the whole family, especially for grandparents and grandparents. Some children are not loved by the older generation. Look, you can't beat, you can't scold, it's a good thing to be close in the next generation, but you shouldn't pamper your children too much, otherwise it's easy for your children to be difficult to discipline. Let's take a look at this example first.

The grandfather of Sister Wang next door is now a hundred years old. It was also this year that Sister Wang's grandson was born. When the grandson is a little older, the first thing is to take the grandson to the countryside to meet his grandfather. One weekend, she drove her son and daughter-in-law to rest, so Sister Wang took her family to her hometown in the countryside. As soon as she got home, she saw the grandfather sitting at the door to rest. Seemingly very happy, the child in Sister Wang's hand also kept staring at Grandfather, his eyes were full of vitality and curiosity, and Grandpa was also excited when he heard that he could hug his great-great-grandson.

First of all, she patted the clothes, and then extended her hand to the great-great-grandson. Sister Wang quickly passed the grandson to the great-grandfather when she saw it. The great-great-grandson in his hand, and the baby didn't cry when he was in the grandfather's hands, looking straight at the grandfather, he looked very cute and cute, maybe this is the magical blood relationship. Seeing that the grandpa and grandson, who are a century apart in age, get along so harmoniously, Sister Wang also took out her mobile phone to record the scene and uploaded it on the Internet, which aroused many likes and comments from netizens: "A samsara looking at each other ", and some netizens said: The two looked at each other as if they had known each other before.

So what is the psychology of next-generation relatives? Let's talk about it below.

(1) enjoyment rather than responsibility

As the saying goes, "Parents are the first teachers of children", so parents are not only pampering their children, but also educating them so that they can understand right and wrong, so that they can walk the right path in the future, so parents are the first responsible person for their children , but grandparents and grandparents are different, because these people are not the first responsible person, so the treatment is more of pampering than education, like the older generation, it is more about enjoying and enjoying family happiness, so the responsibility is Small, because of different positions, different responsibilities, and different social roles, so they are different psychologically, so grandparents are more about enjoying themselves than being responsible.

(2) Identification of genes

Why are grandparents so affectionate to their grandsons and granddaughters? At the same time, children are also very kind to their grandparents. To be precise, this is a human instinct, a biological instinct. Because the genes of grandparents are passed on to children, both grandparents and children have a sense of identity with each other. This kind of identification creates a natural intimacy, making each other seem intimate, and it is more of a kind of love.

(3) Social attachment

Because the elderly lose a kind of social ability, because the elderly are not like adults, the elderly no longer work, they live a life of retirement, it can be said that they have no social value, and at the same time their social circle is getting smaller and smaller. My own children have grown up and married, and are busy with work all day long, so the elderly are eager to get the unsatisfied part of their psychology from their grandchildren, which is the so-called social attachment.

(4) Psychological sense of security

I don’t know if you have heard of such a saying in society. A kind of cultural psychology is that "if the elderly are liked by their children, they will live longer." Some elderly people find that their children do not like them, and they will have a feeling in their hearts Fear, this fear is the fear of death, so under normal circumstances, the elderly are more willing to get close to children, so when getting close to children, the elderly will have a psychological comfort, so the elderly will be more willing to contact children.

So what do you think of the next-generation relatives?