Being a grandmother at the age of forty is no longer a 'blessing'. Most young grandmas today face these four troubles!

In today's life, many women have successfully advanced to become the grandmother or grandmother of their children in their early 40s. The peers of these young grandmothers are even mothers educating their children, and they are already helping their daughters-in-law or daughters take care of their grandchildren. Let's take a look together!

In fact, for 40-year-old grandmothers, most of them are facing these troubles, which is very real.

1. The child's mother or the child's grandmother, silly and unclear

Nowadays, we often see the grandmother of young children in our daily life, and sometimes it is not even clear whether it is the grandmother of the child or the mother of the child. Because of the opening of the two-child policy, many women decide to have a second child at the age of 30 or even at the age of 40, thinking that the two children in the family will take care of each other together.

And some elders have their own children who get married very early and give birth to a big fat boy early. Therefore, people nowadays are generally more embarrassed when they encounter such a situation. They are cautiously asking around, asking the people around them whether the person holding the child is the child's mother or the child's grandmother, so as not to call the wrong one. something embarrassing.

2. Grandma hasn't retired yet. Do you want to resign early and go home to help take care of the baby?

For young grandmothers in their 40s, most of them still have their own jobs and careers. At this time, if they have grandchildren or granddaughters, they will be in a dilemma.

Because the children's parents must work and earn money, they don't have much time to discipline their children, and they don't want to find a nanny to take care of their children. The grandmothers think that they have a job, and they have done a good job considering whether to resign to help their daughter-in-law or their daughter to take care of the children. After all, resigning at this time is equivalent to retirement!

3. The seniority in the family is messed up

If the grandmother is very young in life, the family's seniority may be messed up. For example, a young grandma has a grandson in her 40s, and her siblings are a few years younger than her grandmother. The children are not married and have children. It is very likely that she will have a second baby at this time. The child is called the adult and is the grandmother, and the other child is called the adult and is the aunt...

But everyone seems to be children of the same age, and the two children are also confused. Why do you think I should call him uncle instead of brother and brother? It's obviously a child... of curiosity, this situation actually sounds very embarrassing.

4. The 40-year-old grandma is old and young, so tired that she doubts her life

Now 40-year-old grandma is very common in life, and it is found that 40-year-old grandma is actually very tired in daily life, because they have not only the elderly to take care of, but also the newborn baby to take care of. It's very hard work.

Every day I have to worry not only about the health of the elderly, but also about what the baby needs to eat every day and whether the nutritional supplements are enough... Although it sounds like a family of four generations living together is beautiful, but in fact, doing this The grandmother is even more tired than the parents of the children, and the pressure is huge!

So what do you think of this situation with young grandmothers? Young grandmothers need to decide whether to quit their jobs to take care of their grandchildren according to the situation at home, because after all, it is not an easy task. It is also very hard to take care of the old and the young, but no matter which choice you make, put your mind at ease Still the most important!