Adorable baby was brooding about a 'tail' in the mall, and the next move made everyone laugh: stunned
Children are often the most curious. Curiosity is very important to a person. Curiosity can drive children to explore the world bravely and get the knowledge they want from it. This kind of knowledge obtained through exploration is often Most importantly, many parents always have to face various questions from their children when they are with their children: What animal is this? What is this for? How is this done? One after another, why parents are overwhelmed, this time, let's analyze why children are so curious, and how should parents deal with it!
Children's curiosity is always inexplicable and always so sudden. Sometimes the father takes his daughter to the toilet, and the daughter asks the father curiously, "Dad, why does your bird grow hair?" This makes dad very embarrassed. For children, some questions are not malicious, and they are just curious about some unfamiliar things. Why does it rain? Why the bird can fly, and even why it needs to eat, these are the things that children are curious about. In fact, for adults, these things seem to be normal.
Recently, a child on Weibo has also made many netizens laugh: In the video, a young lady is doing cosplay. She imitates Daji, the mage in the game of Glory of Kings. Because Daji is a fox, there is a tail behind her buttocks. It happened to be seen by a little boy. The child seemed to be startled by this little sister. Maybe this little boy has never seen a human with a long tail before. He was hiding and watching this little sister, and unconsciously touched the little sister with his hands. Sister's tail, until the little sister found this little girl, the little girl squatted there and stared at this little sister, her face full of inconceivable.
After seeing this, netizens were also amused by the kid, and they commented:
A: Hahaha, the kid was stunned, he must have thought that this young lady has evolved!
B: Hahahahaha. Children's curiosity is really heavy!
C: He probably just wanted to see where the tail was stuck, the kid must be terrified!
Children's curiosity often erupts at the age of three to four years old, and some children even begin to have various questions when they are two years old. According to a study by British psychologists, four-year-old children ask about 70 questions every day on average. Therefore, it is called the peak of curiosity, and more than half of the parents have no way to answer it, because the children's questions are really weird. In fact, they will be curious after the baby is born. They hear, see, and Everyone has all kinds of ideas in their hearts, but the language ability is extremely lacking, and they don’t know how to ask!
So how should parents respond to children's strange questions?
Sometimes children will ask some shy questions, why does father have little bird mother, why do you break your ass every month? Why do mom and dad fight at night? So in the face of these problems, as a parent, you must not scold your child in anger, because there is actually a parent-child principle, that is, the more open parents are to their children's problems, the healthier their children will be in the future.
When some children asked these questions when they were young, if they were scolded, criticized, or even punished by adults, it was originally a normal question. Because of the embarrassment, embarrassment, or incorrect thinking of adults, the children's minds were overshadowed, and some children still Therefore, thinking that you are asking bad questions, or even thinking that your mind is dirty, this kind of shame will hinder your child's future mental health, and your child's creativity will be affected, because curiosity is the source of creativity. Children can no longer ask questions, and their curiosity cannot be satisfied. Children gradually become less fond of asking questions? Curiosity is quenched, and the source of creativity dries up.
In the face of children's curiosity, parents can generally answer directly, but parents' children often have the only answer, and sometimes the answers given are limited due to knowledge and experience. Children do not like to think, and their creativity will also be affected. Therefore, when faced with children's questions, the ideal answer is to ask the child "what do you think"? Guide children to think, and they can also accompany them to find answers. The purpose behind these behaviors of parents helps children understand. When they don’t know the answer, they should find a way to find the answer in their own way. Children can not only find rich answers, but also It is also a good habit to seek answers through your own abilities. And parents don't "do not pretend to understand"
So if parents don’t understand, they can accompany their children to find answers. Children’s curiosity is a small flame. If parents are more active in encouraging and responding to children’s questions, the children’s small flames of knowledge will become a big fireball. The future life will also benefit endlessly.