When a pregnant mother gives birth, the expressions of the mother and mother-in-law outside the delivery room are too realistic. Netizens: I was also like this back then

When a pregnant mother gives birth, the expressions of the mother and mother-in-law outside the delivery room are too realistic. Netizens: I was also like this back then

In Chinese families, the most difficult problem to solve is the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Most mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not friendly, and this seems to have become a norm.

Especially when the pregnant mother gives birth, the performance of the mother and mother-in-law outside the delivery room is too realistic. From their performance, we can see who is the mother-in-law and who is the real mother. Since Xiaoqin was pregnant, the whole family was very happy, but because Xiaoqin was an advanced pregnant woman, the husband was afraid that Xiaoqin would experience discomfort during pregnancy, so he suggested that his wife quit her job.

Time passed very quickly, and soon it was the day of delivery. Xiaoqin, who chose to give birth naturally, was in pain when she opened her cervix. Her mother held her hand tightly and comforted Xiaoqin from time to time, but her mother-in-law was in the ward with her. Others chat. After entering the delivery room and waiting for a long time, Xiaoqin finally gave birth to the baby smoothly, and Xiaoqin was very tired. When she was pushed out of the delivery room, she saw her mother and her husband waiting anxiously at the door without any smiling faces. Her mother was pacing at the door for a while and touching her clothes for a while.

And the mother-in-law seems to be chatting with others, she looks very leisurely, without any expression of worry, maybe she is happy for the birth of her grandson in her heart. After the child was pushed out, the mother-in-law rushed to the child immediately, and seeing the obvious gap between the two elders, Xiaoqin couldn't help sighing. Netizens also said one after another: This scene is obviously copy and pasted, and I did the same back then. It can be seen that the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will appear in most families.

So what can mothers do in the face of the problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in life?

1. Do not quarrel with mother-in-law

If you want to reduce conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most important thing is not to quarrel with your mother-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, you should think about it. The reason why you married your husband is all because you love your husband. If you love your husband, you should respect her mother, accepting his mother from the heart. It may be difficult for us to treat our mother-in-law as our own mother, but at least we must respect her and accept her shortcomings. Even if you do encounter conflicts, you must calm yourself down and not have a direct dispute with them.

2. Let your husband adjust when there is a conflict

Why do most families have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? In fact, the most critical person is the husband. Most of the conflicts are because the husband has not adjusted well. As a daughter-in-law, when there is a conflict with the mother-in-law, there are some things that you can’t talk about, but you can ask your husband to do it, and let your husband mediate as much as possible, because this is his duty as a husband and a son.

3. Buy some small gifts for mother-in-law

After all, the daughter-in-law is a junior, not to mention treating her mother-in-law as her own mother. The most basic thing is to respect her mother-in-law, lower her posture, and be more considerate of the difficulties of the elderly. After all, your husband was brought up by her through hard work since she was a child, and she cultivated it by herself, so we should be grateful to our mother-in-law. When we have conflicts with our mother-in-law, try to say some soft words, and occasionally buy some small gifts for my mother-in-law. Some daughters-in-law really want to buy gifts for their mother-in-law out of good intentions, but they will directly ask the mother-in-law what gift she wants, and the smart mother-in-law will naturally say nothing. Daughters-in-law who are truly sincere and know how to do things can know what they want without their mother-in-law telling them, and can directly buy it for their mother-in-law. In fact, the elders never think of anything, and sometimes they can be happy for a long time when they receive some small gifts from us occasionally.

4. Do not compete with the mother-in-law for the son in front of her

As a daughter-in-law, you must admit the fact that when you fall in love with your husband and get married, they do approve of you, but if you want his family to also recognize you, you must go through some processes. After all, in the eyes of your mother-in-law, you are an outsider, and your mother-in-law always loves her son. Nowadays, the reason why conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law appear in many families is actually very easy to understand. No mother-in-law will make life difficult for her son, so a smart daughter-in-law never competes with her mother-in-law for her husband's favor.

Although the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very serious issue, the relationship between the two is also learned, and the best way is to live separately from mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is said that distance creates beauty. If you have no choice but to live together, then you must also respect and understand each other, so that the husband will be a better person and the family will be more harmonious.