The teacher mistakenly sent the message to the parent group, but later found that it could not be withdrawn. The parents' reaction was too realistic
The teacher mistakenly sent the message to the parent group, but later found that it could not be withdrawn. The parents' reaction was too realistic
I have to admit that the current per capita consumption level is getting higher and higher, so in order to make their lives better, most people will choose to start their own side business. Especially to become a kindergarten teacher, the salary is relatively low, so I can only make myself richer by opening a side business.
Xiao Li, born in 1995, is a kindergarten teacher. Because the usual salary is too low, she opened her own online store. But fortunately, Xiao Li's online store has developed very well. Usually, selling some clothes and shoes can make his life better.
Because it takes 24 hours to open an online store, Xiao Li is usually very busy. Not only to take care of the children in kindergarten, but also to run your own online store well, which is actually a very difficult thing. Also on this day, Xiao Li made a small mistake, that is, he sent the matter of his online store to the parent group. An hour had passed by the time Xiao Li discovered his mistake, and it was precisely because of this that Xiao Li had no way to undo it afterwards.
At this time, the parents' reaction is too realistic. Some parents saw that Xiao Li was opening an online store, so they quickly asked: ''Teacher, what do you sell? I would also like to buy some for my kids if it works. ''''Yes, since the teacher has already sold things, why don't we buy from the teacher? Teacher, please tell me what you are selling? Let parents understand. ''Li Wanwan didn't expect that the group of parents would turn out to be like this. This is really terrifying.
What are the negative effects of this kind of behavior on the children?
- The child has previously experienced injustice
This kind of behavior of parents actually makes children feel this kind of unfairness in advance. Parents think that what they are doing is actually very concealed, and only they and the teacher know about it. They think that they have concealed their children, but in fact, children can learn from their interactions with teachers that they and other classmates are suffering differently. treatment. In fact, when children do not enter society, they do not have a right or wrong standard for anything in this world. If parents show their behavior in front of their children at this time, then this is a bad way of education for a child, and it will make the child even more unable to distinguish right from wrong.
- Affect children's normal learning
The reason why many parents curry favor with teachers is actually to let their children learn more in school, to let teachers take more care of their children, and to improve their children's grades. However, once the teacher accepts the parents' favor, and then finds that the child's grades are declining, the teacher will be tied up in teaching. The teacher's special care, but there is no way for the child to study normally. Once the grades are not good, the teacher will be blamed by the parents.
- Burden to other parents
In fact, this matter of pleasing the teacher can easily bring a serious burden to other parents. Because when a parent has such behavior to please the teacher, then the parents behind will blindly follow. For some ordinary families, it takes a lot of money to please the teacher, which will increase the pressure. Students will also bully each other because of this, especially some children from rich families will bully children from ordinary families.
- Teach your child to do this
All the behaviors of the children are actually imitating the parents, and any behavior of the parents will not escape the eyes of the children. If parents have this behavior of pleasing the teacher, then the children will imitate them. When they want to get something or want others to help them do things, they will please each other in every possible way. Once the child learns this behavior, it proves that the child's three views have been affected, and this incorrect three views will definitely bring great harm to the child's future life.
Therefore, even if we encounter such a thing, as parents, we must not chase the teacher to the death, otherwise, it will not benefit the children in the future. We must also pay more attention in our daily life, this is what parents should do.