The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the grandfather's subsequent actions made passengers call: the real 'show off wealth'
The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the grandfather's subsequent actions made passengers call: the real "show off wealth"
Children will definitely encounter some troubles when they go out. For example, some children vomited out because they were uncomfortable when they were taking the subway. But this grandfather's actions really let everyone bear it! And they all said: This is the real show of wealth!
Recently, because the children's parents are busy, Grandpa Li has been taking care of his granddaughter. But what Grandpa Li was most distressed about was that his granddaughter's health was not very good all the time, and when he went out, he would feel nauseous and uncomfortable. On this day, when Grandpa Li took the subway with his granddaughter, the granddaughter began to feel a little uncomfortable as soon as he got on the bus. He wanted to endure it a little longer, and then vomited after getting off the subway, but in the end, the granddaughter couldn't hold back and vomited. one place.
When such a scene appeared, the passengers felt unacceptable, because this kind of thing was really disgusting. But at the next moment, Grandpa Li's approach was really commendable. I saw that your grandfather immediately took out the water, poured it on the ground, and quickly cleaned up all the things the child vomited on the subway. Most importantly, Grandpa Li, in place of his granddaughter, bowed deeply to these passengers to express his apology.
And at the next moment, the child seemed to feel much better, so the granddaughter also apologized to the passengers beside him. It is precisely because of this scene that the passengers suddenly discovered that this grandfather is really very talented, and the girls he educated are really too educated!
Through this incident, I believe everyone can understand that people generally prefer those people with higher quality.
So, how can parents improve the quality of their children?
- Parents lead by example
Parents can improve the quality of their children by leading by example. This is because all the habits of children stem from imitating their parents. If the parents have high quality, then of course the child will also have high quality. But the premise is that parents need to know how to restrain their own behavior in front of their children, and never make some wrong behaviors in front of their children, then this will have a different impact on the children. If you do a wrong behavior and don't correct it, then the child will think that the behavior is right, and they will naturally do the same behavior as the parent next time.
- Give the child basic knowledge
Parents can also teach their children some basic knowledge to improve their children's quality. For example, if you tell your child that you must not make a fuss when you are out and about, and only if parents with this knowledge can properly educate their children, then the children will of course avoid this kind of thing from happening. Parents can also tell their children what the consequences of these things are if they keep running around. So when children go out with their parents, of course they will follow their parents obediently and will not run around. Because only when this knowledge is in place, the child will become a high-quality person and avoid causing trouble to others.
- Cultivate children's empathy
Parents can cultivate their children's empathy and educate their children into high-quality people. In fact, empathy refers to letting children understand empathy. Only children who know how to consider the feelings of others can they restrain their own behavior. When they do some behaviors, they will think in advance, if they are others, whether they will be disgusted when others do this kind of behavior. Only when children have this idea will they know if their behavior is right, and if they find that they are not, they will stop their behavior. Over time, the child will become a high-quality person.
- Reward and punish children
Parents must know how to reward and punish their children when cultivating their children. When we find that the child is doing the right thing, we must not be stingy with the encouragement of the child, and when necessary, we can give the child some rewards. However, when it is found that the child has done something wrong, the child also needs to be punished. Only in this way can the child have a long memory.
Therefore, in daily life, we must improve the quality of children. Only in this way will children be liked by others and not easy to be hated by others.