The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the behavior of the grandfather after that made the passengers say: the real 'show off wealth'
The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the behavior of the grandfather after that made the passengers say: the real "show off wealth"
Children will definitely encounter some troubles when they are away from home. For example, some children vomited out because they were uncomfortable on the subway. But this grandpa's move really made everyone bear it! They all said: This is the real way to show off your wealth!
Recently, because the parents of the children are busy, it is said that Grandpa Li has been taking care of his granddaughter. But the most distressing thing about Grandpa Li is that his granddaughter's health has not been very good, and she will feel sick when she goes out. On this day, when Grandpa Li was taking the subway with his granddaughter, his granddaughter began to feel a little uncomfortable as soon as he got on the train. He wanted to bear it for a while, and then vomited after getting off the subway, but in the end the granddaughter couldn't hold back. one place.
When such a scene happened, the passengers found it difficult to accept it, because this kind of thing was really disgusting. But at the next moment, what Grandpa Li did was really commendable. I saw your grandfather immediately took out the water, poured it on the ground, and then cleaned up all the children's vomit on the subway very quickly. Most importantly, Grandpa Li bowed deeply to these passengers instead of his granddaughter to express his apology.
And at the next moment, the child seemed to feel better, so the granddaughter also apologized to the passengers beside her. It was precisely because of this scene that the passengers suddenly realized that this grandpa was really talented, and the girls he educated were also really well-educated!
Through this incident, I believe everyone can understand that people generally prefer those with higher quality.
So, how can parents improve the quality of their children?
- Parents lead by example
Parents can improve the quality of their children by leading by example. This is because all the habits of children come from imitating their parents. If the parents have high qualities, then the children will of course also have high qualities. But the premise is that parents need to know how to restrain their behavior in front of their children, and never make some wrong behaviors in front of their children, then this will have a different impact on the children. If you do a wrong behavior and don't correct it, then the child will think that such behavior is right, and they will naturally do the same behavior as their parents next time.
- Give children basic knowledge
Parents can also teach their children some basic knowledge to improve their quality. For example, tell the children that they must never make a scene when they are out of the house. Only with this knowledge, the parents educate the children correctly, and the children will of course avoid such things from happening. If the child is always running around, parents can also tell the child what the consequences of these things are. Then when the child goes out with his parents, of course he will obediently follow his parents and will not run around. Because only when this knowledge is in place, the child will become a high-quality person and avoid causing trouble to others.
- Cultivate children's empathy
Parents can cultivate their children's empathy and educate their children to be a high-quality person. In fact, empathy refers to letting children know how to empathize. Only when children know how to consider the feelings of others can they restrain their behavior. When they do some behaviors, they will think in advance, if they are others, whether they will be disgusted when others do this kind of behavior. Only when children have such thoughts, will they know whether their behavior is correct, and if they find that their behavior is incorrect, they will stop their behavior. Over time, the child will become a high-quality person.
- Reward and punish children
Parents must know how to reward and punish children when they train their children. When we find that the child is doing the right thing, we must not be stingy with encouraging the child, and we can reward the child when necessary. But when it is discovered that the child has done something wrong, the child also needs to be punished. Only in this way can the child have a long memory.
Therefore, in daily life, we must improve the quality of the children. Only in this way, the children will be liked by others and not easy to be hated by others.