The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the actions of Grandpa after the grandfather let the passengers say: the real 'show off the wealth'
The granddaughter vomited on the subway, and the actions of Grandpa after the grandfather let the passengers say: the real "show off the wealth"
When children go out, they will definitely encounter some troubles. For example, when some children are not comfortable when they are sitting on the subway, they vomit. But this grandfather's move is really let everyone carry it! And said: This is the real showing wealth!
Recently, because the children's parents are busy, Grandpa Li has been taking care of his granddaughter. But Grandpa Li's most distressed thing is that the granddaughter's body has not been very good, and it will be disgusting and uncomfortable as soon as he goes out. And when Grandpa Li followed his granddaughter on the subway on this day, as soon as he got on the car, his granddaughter began to have some uncomfortable. He wanted to bear it again, and then waited for the subway to vomit, but in the end his granddaughter did not hold back vomiting. One place.
When such a scene appeared, passengers felt difficult to accept, because this kind of thing was really disgusting. But at the next moment, Grandpa Li's approach was really praised. I saw Grandpa immediately took out the water, poured it on the ground, and then cleaned up all the things that children spit on the subway very quickly. The most important thing is that Grandpa Li also bowed deeply with his granddaughter and bowed deeply towards these passengers, expressing his apology.
The next moment, the child seemed to be a lot better, so his granddaughter also apologized for the passengers around him. It was precisely because of this scene that passengers suddenly found that this grandfather was too quality, and the girl he educated was too educated!
Through this incident, I believe everyone can understand that people generally prefer those people with higher quality.
So, how do parents improve their children's quality?
- Parents lead by example
Parents can improve their children's quality. This is because all children's habits stem from imitating parents. If parents have high quality, of course, children will also have high quality. But the premise is that parents need to know how to restrain their behavior in front of their children. Do not make some wrong behaviors in front of the child, then this will have a different impact on the child. If you do wrong behavior and do not correct, then children will think that such behavior is right, and they will naturally do the same behavior as parents next time.
- Give it to the child's basic knowledge
Parents can also teach children some basic knowledge to improve their children's quality. For example, tell your child that you must not make a lot of noise when you go out. Only these knowledge parents educate the children correctly, then the child will certainly avoid this kind of thing. If the child is always running around, parents can also tell the children what the consequences of these things. So when the child is going out with his parents, of course, he will obediently follow his parents and will not run around. Because only these knowledge is in place can children become a high -quality person, avoiding trouble to others.
- Cultivate children's empathy psychology
Parents can cultivate their children's empathy and educate their children into a high -quality person. In fact, the psychological psychology refers to that children know how to think in other places. Only when the children know how to consider the feelings of others can they restrain their behavior. When they do some behaviors, they will think in advance. If they are others, they will be disgusted when others do such behavior. Only when children have such an idea, they will know whether their behavior is correct. If they find that their behavior is incorrect, they will stop their behavior. Once a long time, the child will become a high -quality person.
- Reward and punishment for children
Parents must know how to reward and punish their children when they cultivate their children. When you find that your child is doing correctly, we must not encourage the children. When necessary, we can make some rewards for the child. However, when you find that your child has done something wrong, you also need to punish the child. Only in this way can the child be memorized.
Therefore, in daily life, we must improve the quality of children. Only when this is the case, children will be loved by others, and it is not easy for others to hate it.