Guangdong boy's birthday, he cried on the spot after seeing the birthday cake sent by his father, netizen: too cruel
Guangdong boy's birthday, he cried on the spot after seeing the birthday cake sent by his father, netizen: too cruel
For children, the happiest thing in childhood must be when they celebrate their birthday, because they can eat a lot of delicious food, including cakes. But have you ever heard of crying on the spot after seeing the cake? This Cantonese boy was crying when he saw the birthday cake his father gave him.
When most parents choose cakes for their children, they will definitely choose some particularly good-looking cartoon cakes for their children. But recently a cake has become popular on the Internet, all because this cake is really cruel.
Because of his son's birthday, Mr. Ma chose a beautiful cake for his son. But when the child saw the cake, he burst into tears on the spot. All of this is because this cake is not what the child wants at all, although there are some pictures on the cake, but these pictures are really terrible. It turns out that these cake pictures are all pictures of books and exercise books that need to be learned, and there are two lines of words written on the cake, which are the most unbearable.
''The world will not be destroyed in a day, you have to do your homework. ''These two lines are really unacceptable for a child. So Mr. Ma's children burst into tears when they saw this moment. When this photo became popular on the Internet, netizens also expressed their sympathy for the child. This father is really too cruel, even for his birthday, he will not let the child stop!
But in fact, such an approach will only add more pressure to the child, and will not do any good to the child's academic performance.
What are the negative consequences of putting too much pressure on children to study?
- Children become bored
If the child is under too much pressure, the child will be disgusted with school. Even a child who used to love learning, once they have a lot of pressure on learning, over time, they will gradually turn this enthusiasm for learning into disgust. They will resist learning, and they will not listen to the teacher's lectures carefully in class, and they will not even take homework seriously. This is the bad consequence of too much pressure.
- Children become rebellious
The reason why some children appear rebellious is also caused by excessive learning pressure. I believe you may have seen children who were usually well-behaved and docile, suddenly become very rebellious, and began to fight against their parents, and even said some insulting words to their parents. In fact, this is because they have a lot of pressure in the process of learning, so they have no way to find out, so rebellion has become one of the main channels for them to vent their pressure.
- The child will lose self-confidence
Some children also lose confidence because of the stress of studying. It is precisely because of the high learning pressure that they have unconfident thoughts about themselves. They always think that they can't do it, they always think that they can make mistakes, and gradually they deny their ability, and they begin to feel unconfident about learning. And the less confident they are, the more wrong they will do, which is the consequence of their great study pressure.
So, what should parents do to help their children learn in the right way?
- Let the children combine work and rest
If parents want to help their children learn correctly, they must let their children know what it means to combine work and rest. In fact, not only children need to understand, but also parents need to understand. Some parents find that when their children go out and play, they will think that their children's play will delay their studies, so they will prevent their children from playing. But in fact, letting children play can improve their learning efficiency and make them better immersed in learning.
- Help children assign learning tasks
And parents must also know how to help children assign their learning tasks so that they can learn correctly. Especially at the end of the term or the stage of the college entrance examination, the tasks that children need to learn will increase day by day. If they are not assigned properly, children will have huge pressure. At this time, they need the help of their parents very much. If the parents help them assign learning tasks at this time, it can make them complete better and reduce the pressure of learning.
Therefore, we must use the correct method to help children learn, do not put too much pressure on children, otherwise it will not be good for children's physical and mental health. In addition, we also need to constantly relieve pressure for children, so that children can study well in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, so that children's academic performance will definitely improve.