Guangdong boy celebrated his birthday and cried bitterly after seeing the birthday cake his father gave him. Netizens: It’s too cruel

Guangdong boy celebrated his birthday and cried bitterly after seeing the birthday cake his father gave him. Netizens: It’s too cruel

For children, the happiest thing in childhood must be their birthday, because they can eat a lot of delicious food, including cakes. But have you ever heard of crying on the spot after seeing the cake? This Guangdong boy was celebrating his birthday, and when he saw the birthday cake his father gave him, he burst into tears.

When most parents choose cakes for their children, they will definitely choose some particularly beautiful cartoon cakes for their children. But recently a cake has become popular on the Internet, all because this cake is really cruel.

Because of his son's birthday, Mr. Ma chose a beautiful cake for his son. But when the child saw the cake, he burst into tears on the spot. All of this is because this cake is not what the child wants at all. Although there are some pictures on the cake, these pictures are really terrible. It turns out that these cake pictures are all pictures of books and exercise books that need to be studied, and there are two lines of writing on the cake, which are the most unbearable.

''As long as the world is not destroyed, you have to do your homework. '' These two lines are really unacceptable to a child. So Mr. Ma's child broke down and cried when he saw this moment. After the photo became popular on the Internet, netizens also expressed sympathy for the child. This father is really too cruel, he won't let the child stop even after his birthday!

But in fact, such an approach will only add more pressure to the child, and it will not be of any benefit to the child's academic performance.

What are the bad consequences of putting too much pressure on children to study?

1. Children will become tired of learning

If the child is under too much pressure, then the child will become tired of studying. Even a child who used to love learning, once they have a lot of pressure on learning, over time, they will gradually turn their enthusiasm for learning into disgust. They will resist learning, and they will not listen to the teacher seriously in class, and they will not even take homework seriously. This is the bad consequence of excessive pressure on them.

2. Children will become rebellious

The reason why some children are rebellious is also caused by excessive learning pressure. I believe that you may have seen children who are usually well-behaved and docile, suddenly become very rebellious, start to confront their parents, and even say some insulting words to their parents. In fact, this is because they have a lot of pressure in the process of learning, which makes them unable to find out, so rebellion has become one of the main channels for them to vent their pressure.

3. Children lose self-confidence

Some children will also lose confidence because of the excessive learning pressure. It is precisely because of the high pressure of learning that they have unconfident thoughts about themselves. They always think that they can't do it, they always think that they will make mistakes, and gradually they will deny their ability, and they start to feel unconfident about learning. And the less confident they are, the more mistakes they will make. This is the consequence of their heavy learning pressure.

So what is the right way for parents to help their children learn?

1. Let children combine work and rest

If parents want to help their children learn correctly, then they must let their children know what a balance between work and rest is. In fact, not only children need to understand, but parents also need to understand. Some parents, when they find their children going out and playing, they think that their children's play will delay their studies, so they will stop their children from playing. But in fact, letting children play can improve their learning efficiency and make them better devoted to learning.

2. Help children assign learning tasks

And parents must also know how to help children assign their learning tasks so that they can learn correctly. Especially at the end of the term or the stage of the college entrance examination, the tasks that children need to learn will increase day by day. If the assignment is not proper, the children will experience tremendous pressure. At this time, they need the help of their parents very much. If parents help them assign learning tasks at this time, it will enable them to complete them better and reduce the pressure of learning.

So we must use the correct method to help children learn, and don't put too much pressure on children, otherwise it will not do any good to children's physical and mental health. In addition, we also need to constantly relieve the pressure on the children, so that the children can study hard in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, so that the children's academic performance will definitely improve.