Dad accompanies his son to play hanging bottles, lying on the bed by himself and letting the baby fan the air. Netizen: Is that his own father?

Dad accompanies his son to play hanging bottles, lying on the bed by himself and letting the baby fan the air. Netizen: Is that his own father?

Many people say that being naughty is the nature of children, but sometimes parents are no less naughty than children, especially fathers. When fathers are lazy, children have nothing to do. In a family, the most worrying thing for every mother is that the child is sick. Some time ago, there was such a video on the Internet. The father in the video was playing a hanging bottle with his son. It is reasonable to say that the child is sick. It should be the child lying on the bed and the father taking care of him.

But what about the dad in the video? The father was lying on the bed by himself, and seemed to be playing with his mobile phone leisurely. He even let his son fan him by the side. He didn't know what the child was thinking. If the child's mother sees it, it is estimated that there will be a beating. After seeing this video, many netizens left messages one after another: It is estimated that only fathers in this world can take care of their children so indifferently, and some netizens said: This is really something only my own father can do!

There are no perfect parents in the world. Every parent has come from childhood, and in the process of accompanying their children, they are also growing up slowly. In every family, it is always the mother who is responsible for taking care of the children carefully. Under the background of the mother, the baby fathers seem to be extraordinarily Buddhist when they take care of the children.

Why is it ''it doesn't matter'' when the father takes the baby?

1. Dad is lazy by nature

I believe that in many families, my mother treats my father like this. My mother thinks that my father has a particularly big problem, that is, he is lazy. And this feature is also shown in the process of bringing their children. If the mother goes out to give the child to the father, in order to prevent the child from being too noisy, the fathers often try their best to restrain the child and prevent the child from disturbing themselves. In this case, the father cannot stare at the child all the time, and the child will suffer some minor injuries, so the mothers are particularly worried and reluctant to let the father take the baby. Even if I have to go out sometimes, I have no choice but to let my father take the child, but I will always pay attention to the child's movements, for fear that my father will use some strange methods to hurt the child.

2. Dad is humorous

When mothers get together, what they talk about the most is nothing more than what trouble dad brings to him with his baby. Who says there is a child in the family, it is better to say that there is a big child in the family. When the father is with the child, the father's humorous character and childishness are all inspired. In many families, fathers are very humorous. They will use the unexpected methods of mothers to make some ordinary things into children's toys, trying their best to make children happy, and children actually gain a lot of fun from it.

What will happen to the children brought out like this?

1. Children have a stronger sense of responsibility

Although the family model of the male lead outside the female lead is no longer advocated, and many women also support half of the family, it is undeniable that the father is still the bearer of the entire family, and their sense of responsibility is very strong. In the process of bringing up the child, the father will actually convey this quality to the child, and the child's sense of responsibility will be gradually cultivated.

2. Children are braver

For the simplest example, if a child sees a puddle in front of them while walking, most mothers will pick up the child and walk over the puddle. And dads won't do this, dads will choose to ignore it, and even some naughty dads will deliberately let their children jump over the puddle. Although the children play with mud all over, the bravery of the children is also reflected in the process. When fathers educate their children, they will use their own temperament to influence the children.

3. Children are more planned

Men are more planned than women. When faced with a matter, they can often use a more rational approach, have their own opinions, and will not follow the trend. Women are easily influenced by the outside world when faced with a matter, and this influence is actually reflected in the issue of educating children. Therefore, the children educated by the father are more planned and more purposeful in doing things.

Studies have shown that children brought out by fathers are more intelligent, because the father is also a boy, the boy's thinking is more jumpy, and communication with the child can also promote the brain development of young children. Of course, this does not mean that all fathers are better than mothers in raising children, but because of differences in gender, when raising children, all aspects are different.