Bao mother took her son to go out to buy food, and covered her child's eyes as soon as she left the gate of the community. Netizen: Too witty
Bao mother took her son to go out to buy food, and covered her child's eyes as soon as she left the gate of the community. Netizen: Too witty
After having a child, one of the things most parents are most afraid of is taking the child out, because when the child goes out to see the toys, there is always a ''war''.
After all, children are not like adults. When buying things, they must consider the cost-effectiveness and whether the price is appropriate. As long as they like things, they want to buy them, so many parents complain. Some time ago, a video like this appeared on the Internet. A mother wanted to go out to buy food, but was afraid that her young child would not be safe at home alone, so she went out with her son.
As a result, just after leaving the gate of the community, the mother covered the child's eyes, not to mention that the child was confused, it is estimated that passers-by who saw it would also be very confused, not knowing what the mother was doing. But if you look closely, you can understand, because there is a small booth not far from the gate of the community, and the small booth is full of exquisite toys.
The mother did this probably to avoid a ''war'' with her son, so she just covered the child's eyes when he didn't find the stall. In the face of this mother's approach, many netizens have said: This mother's approach is too witty, and she has learned another trick. People who don't have children may not understand it very well. They feel that this mother is superfluous. If she does not agree with the child's purchase of toys, it is fine to simply refuse.
So what principles should parents follow when raising children?
- Make rules in advance
When parents bring their children, the most important thing is to make rules in advance, such as buying toys. Some parents will explain that they do not want to buy toys before taking their children out, but when the children see the toys splashing and rolling, they give up the principle. This will only let the children know that the rules can be overturned at will. In the future, whenever parents make rules with their children At times, the child will no longer obey. Therefore, the attitude of parents is very important. In the process of children's growth, there are still many places where we have to fight with them. As parents, we must be calm, and at the same time, we must not pay for the children's willfulness.
- Be patient with children
Young babies are self-centered in everything they do, especially when they are over two years old, their needs and self-assertion will become more prominent. Once the request is not satisfied by the parents, it will be expressed by crying or other shameful ways. The parents first understand the child's emotions and psychological development state, so that they can patiently guide and educate the child.
- Equivalent exchange with children
Most of today's children are only children. They have what they want when they are young, so when the child grows up, parents can't control it if they want to. Once the child wants to buy something, he will cry a lot when he is not satisfied. Faced with this situation, parents are actually very helpless, and parents may wish to exchange with their children for equal value. For example, when children are told they want a toy or something, they also need to pay, such as cleaning or washing the dishes. In this process, the child's independence has been exercised, and at the same time, he has learned to cherish it.
- Parents should be firm
Once the child is crying and cannot calm down, it is difficult to listen to other people's words. At this time, parents should be ruthless and resolutely reject their unreasonable demands. Parents can stand on the sidelines once they resist. If we are satisfied as soon as the child cries, it is easy to develop some bad habits of the child, such as cheating. But a firm attitude does not mean that we can beat or abuse children at will, which will only arouse children's fear.
Children do not know whether a thing is right or wrong, and as long as they want what they want, they will get it, and they have such an idea, which has a lot to do with their parents' education. Parents usually blindly meet the requirements of their children, which will only bring a variety of harm to their children. The word ''education'' is not just words, it requires parents to make a lot of efforts. Parents should remember that meeting the unreasonable demands of their children is not love, it is coddling. Teaching children to understand moderation and to think independently is true love. Home education is like building a building. Only when the foundation is laid well can the building be built higher and higher.