Bao mother brought twins alone, one in front and one behind her. Dad's eyes were red when he saw this scene when he got home.

Bao mother brought twins alone, one in front and one behind her. Dad's eyes were red when he saw this scene when he got home.

Nowadays, many parents have more requirements in raising their children, not only to raise the baby healthy, but also to educate the child how to become a person with correct three views. Raising children is never easy for parents, let alone a family with multiple births. For families with only one child, parents can never imagine what it is like to have two children alone.

And there is such a video on the Internet, in this video, it is a treasure mother with twin babies alone. Maybe my father went to work outside and hasn't come home yet. As you can see from the picture, the two babies are still young and crying all the time, while the mother can only coax one after another. Just after coaxing this one, the other one starts cry. At this time, it was time for dinner, and the mother couldn't find time to coax the two babies, so she could only carry one baby in front of and behind her, so that her hands could be freed up to eat.

The mother walked back and forth to coax the baby while eating, and the two babies walked back and forth with the mother, and the crying gradually became much less. Seeing that the two children were finally quiet, the mother was also relieved, but she did not put the children down immediately, but continued in this state, hoping that the children could be quieter. At this time, my father just came home from get off work. Seeing this scene, his eyes were red, and he felt distressed and full of guilt. He quickly put down the bag in his hand, stepped forward to carry the child down, and let his wife have a good meal.

So what can family members do to help mothers, or to relieve the stress of mothers?

1. The family cannot ignore the perfunctory mother

After giving birth to a baby, mothers are under tremendous physical stress, as well as mentally. At this time, the family must give Bao mother enough care and psychological comfort, especially her husband. Otherwise, Bao mother will easily be confused due to some minor problems and conflicts after childbirth, and even more serious psychological diseases will appear. . Therefore, the family must pay more attention to the mother, not to neglect them, to make them full of happiness, and not to let them feel that they have no children after giving birth, and they are neglected by their families.

2. The husband takes good care of him

Mothers need a process of physical recovery after giving birth, and at this time, fathers must be extra careful and must take care of mothers. Because for girls, childbirth is a very hard thing. At this stage, a woman's body will also become very weak, and she may need the care of others in her daily life. Therefore, at this time, parents should be patient enough to take care of the daily life of mothers carefully, and don't think this is a very troublesome thing.

3. The mother-in-law understands and tolerates more

Today's life is very different from before. Women in the past had to work in the fields, do housework and cook after giving birth. Therefore, many mothers-in-law will also deliberately embarrass their daughter-in-law, thinking that her daughter-in-law cannot bear hardships, that her daughter-in-law is too squeamish, and then use the method that she introduced before to teach her daughter-in-law a lesson, which is very wrong. Today's lifestyle is constantly changing, and everyone's awareness of health has improved a lot. When my mother-in-law is educating her mother, should she think about the confinement diseases that she left behind after confinement and working in the field. Therefore, the mother-in-law should not interfere too much with the daughter-in-law, but should be more tolerant and understanding. At the same time, she should also make up for the daughter-in-law's body and help the daughter-in-law to take care of the child. Family harmony is the basis for the baby's happy growth.

4. The family takes the initiative to help the mother take the child

If anyone still thinks that it is women's responsibility to have children and raise them, they are wrong. The child is the joint crystallization of the husband and wife. The husband cannot let his wife take care of the baby after laboring hard to give birth to the child. Taking care of a newborn is not easy. Children are prone to crying, and sometimes cry a lot when they move. Adults need to coax children often. Therefore, the father and his family should take the initiative to help the mother take the child, so that the mother has enough time to rest.

The time from a woman's pregnancy to giving birth to a child may seem short, but it is actually a very long time for pregnant women, and the pregnant woman's mind and body will be under a lot of pressure. If the family does not care enough to understand them at this time, then the mothers will face more hardships. Therefore, Bao Dad and his family must not stay out of it, and must pay more attention to Bao Ma.