A 'love letter' from a third-year-old girl is on fire, teacher: I won't care about this girl even if she falls in love early
A "love letter" from a third-year-old girl is on fire, teacher: I won't care about this girl even if she falls in love early
It is only natural for children to learn when they are in school, and the most troublesome thing we feel is the child's puppy love. Especially when our children write or receive love letters, we must be very angry. However, in a love letter written by this third year girl, the teacher said: Even if this girl falls in love early, I will not care!
This love letter, which is popular all over the Internet, came from a Chinese class in a junior high school. The teacher assigned a composition to all the students. The title was "So we don't know love". I wanted to let these children play freely and see what everyone thinks about love, but I didn't expect that the composition of a girl in the third year of junior high school really opened the teacher's eyes.
In this composition, the girl showed the daily life of her grandparents in words. Although it is said that grandparents will inevitably have some frictions in their lives, they all show love for each other, and there is also a strong love between the lines.
In the love of grandparents, the girl summed up her views on love. For her, love is a kind of responsibility and an eternity. It can be said that although this girl is only a child of the third grade, she also has a very clear understanding of love. Even the teacher has to admit that this girl's view of love is really too positive. Even if such a girl is in a puppy love, she will not care about it. Because a girl who understands the concept of love so well, even if it is a puppy love, she can make the most correct choice.
Although this is the case, the problem of puppy love has always plagued parents. Whenever we see a child falling in love early, we feel very angry. In fact, we might as well look at the problem of children's puppy love from a better perspective, so that we can more clearly understand why children are puppy love.
How should parents deal with puppy love?
- Do not scold, do not hinder
After parents find out that their children are in puppy love, what they should do is not to reprimand or stop them. Some parents are very angry when they find out that their children are in puppy love, and even say some insulting words to their children. Some parents want to prevent the two from seeing each other again. If they want to break the relationship between the two, they will trap the two at home and prevent them from going out to class, so that they have no chance to contact. But parents don’t know that the more you block two people, the more you have to prove to you what unswerving love is, so instead of blocking them, it’s better to just let it go and not reprimand them. If you don’t block them, it will be different. Effect.
- Help children recognize their feelings
After the child falls in love, parents should help the child to recognize their own feelings. Because some children choose puppy love, it is just because they have a good impression of each other. This relationship is not love, so two people are together only because of good feelings. And some children are in early love because they want to get company from each other, not really like each other and love each other. Parents need to help their children recognize their feelings, so that they will know that their feelings are wrong in the first place. Only when children recognize their feelings will they end the relationship on their own.
- Guide children to make their own decisions
What parents should do after puppy love is to guide their children and let them make their own decisions. There are some children who always think that they are grown up and can do some adult things. They think that falling in love is something adults can do, but parents should tell them and guide children to face up to their age and understand what they need to do at this age. Parents need to analyze the pros and cons of puppy love for their children, and let their children know the impact of puppy love on a person. Although puppy love can accompany you, it will affect your learning, which makes children understand the importance of learning and the harm that puppy love brings to them, and they will naturally end the relationship.
- Provide more companionship to children
If parents find that their children are in puppy love only because of lack of companionship, then parents should accompany their children. Only when children get enough company will they know that what they need from each other is just company. Over time, their relationship with each other will become very weak, and the breakup will naturally come.
Therefore, we must understand children. Only in this way can we clearly understand why children fall in love early, and only in this way can we understand children.