A full-time mother who only takes care of the baby and does not work is disliked by her husband, and the AA system is implemented, and the content makes the father-in-law unable to sit still
Nowadays, the pressure of competition among people is increasing, and the education of children is becoming more and more important. However, if a family has children who need to be taken care of, but there is no elderly to help, then one of the husband and wife must be sacrificed to take care of the children. . In most cases, women choose to sacrifice their careers and return to the family, becoming full-time mothers and letting their husbands work outside to make money. But in many families in China, full-time mothers are looked down upon as a profession. This phenomenon makes full-time mothers feel very sad.
Full-time mothers who don't work are disgusted and decided to implement the AA system.
When Qingqing was pregnant, her salary was 5,000 yuan/month, and her husband’s salary was only 6,000 yuan/month. They both worked in a state-owned enterprise, and her husband’s room for promotion as a skilled worker was not very large. But after the child was born, because her father-in-law and mother-in-law hadn’t retired yet, they couldn’t help to take care of the child, and she was worried about asking a nanny to take care of Qingqing, so Qingqing had to resign and take care of the child at home. In a blink of an eye, the child is already two years old. Qingqing is a full-time mother at home and takes good care of the family and the child, but her husband is a little swollen. He always says something like this at home: I am very tired from work all day, and you can’t take care of a child. , what else can I do? Why don't you just bring a child? It's much easier than making money outside, okay? Why do you have no money again, do you need to spend so much money a month?
Qingqing never imagined that taking care of children is more tiring than going to work, but her husband doesn't understand her at all and always complains. Qingqing thought about it for a few days and decided to send her child to kindergarten in advance, and said that she would go to work to make money. In the future, AA will be implemented in the child's life, but the child must have her last name. Hearing such a statement, Qingqing's father-in-law was the first to sit still, and firmly opposed Qingqing's approach, thinking that it was not in line with Chinese tradition. Qingqing said that the traditional Chinese is that the husband is responsible for earning money to support the family, but now her husband is not only not responsible for earning money to support the family, but also thinks that the family spends too much, which is not a traditional habit at all. Either follow the tradition, or implement the AA system according to the latest law. After thinking about it, the husband decided to respect Qingqing, let Qingqing take care of the children at home, and help take care of the children more after returning home. The father-in-law also decided to support part of the small family every month.
Full-time mothers are actually even harder!
(1) Full-time mothers work all year round;
Full-time mothers must take good care of their children, so they watch their children all the time, and there is no time to relax. In fact, you can occasionally relax at work, and there are holidays, so life will be relatively easy.
(2) Full-time mothers must learn many skills;
No one is born to be a mother and must study hard the day after tomorrow. Therefore, a full-time mother is not only a nanny who needs to take care of the child's daily life and diet, but also a child's tutor. She needs to always pay attention to the child's thoughts and pay attention to the child's learning status in a timely manner. make corrections and guidance.
(3) Full-time mothers have greater psychological pressure;
The current law is to protect the pre-marital property, and the property and debts after marriage are shared. Therefore, for full-time mothers, they have no financial resources and need the support of their husbands. If any accidents happen to their husbands, then their lives will be There will be no guarantee, and family members will dislike her, so the psychological pressure of full-time mothers is very great.
How should the family treat full-time mothers?
- Body full-time mother;
It is necessary to clearly realize that raising children is a very hard work. You must learn to understand your wife, and spend more time with your children after returning home, so that mothers can have a chance to breathe.
- Give mother enough sense of security;
In many countries, if wives work full-time at home, the financial power in the home is in the hands of the wives, and some of the husband's wages are even paid directly to the wives' cards, so wives can rest assured to be full-time mothers, so if My wife has sacrificed her career to be a full-time mother, so she must give her enough sense of security.