A full-time mother who only brings her baby and does not work is disliked by her husband and implements the AA system. The content makes her father-in-law unable to sit still.
Nowadays, the pressure of competition is increasing, and the education of children is becoming more and more important. However, if a family has children to take care of, but there is no elderly person to help, then one of the husband and wife must be sacrificed to take care of the children. . In most cases, women choose to sacrifice their careers to return to the family, become full-time mothers, and let their husbands work outside to earn money. But in many families in China, stay-at-home mothers are a despised profession, and this phenomenon makes stay-at-home mothers feel very sad.
The stay-at-home mother was rejected for not working and decided to implement the AA system.
When Qingqing was pregnant, her salary was 5,000 yuan/month, and her husband's salary was only 6,000 yuan/month. They were all working in state-owned enterprises, and her husband's promotion space as a skilled worker was not very large. But after the birth of the child, because the parents-in-law had not retired and could not help to take care of the child, and asked a nanny to bring it and Qingqing was not at ease, so Qingqing had to resign to take care of the child at home. In a blink of an eye, the child is already two years old. Qingqing is a stay-at-home mother and takes good care of the family and the children, but her husband is a little swollen. , what else can be done? Don't you have a child? It's much easier than making money outside, okay? Why is there no money again, do I need to spend so much money in a month?
Qingqing never imagined that raising children is more tiring than going to work, but her husband doesn't understand her at all, and he always complains. After thinking about it for a few days, Qingqing decided to send the child to kindergarten in advance, and said that she would go to work to earn money. In the future, the child's life will be implemented in AA, but the child must have his own last name. Hearing such a statement, Qingqing's father-in-law was the first to sit still and firmly opposed Qingqing's practice, believing that it did not conform to Chinese traditions. Qingqing said that the traditional Chinese is that the husband needs to be responsible for making money to support the family, but now her husband is not only responsible for making money and supporting the family, but also thinks that the family spends too much, which is not a traditional habit at all. Either in accordance with the traditional, or in accordance with the latest law, the implementation of the AA system. After thinking about it, the husband decided to respect Qingqing, let Qingqing take care of the children at home, and help to take care of the children in the future. The father-in-law also decided to support part of the small family every month.
Stay-at-home moms actually work harder!
(1) Full-time mothers are available all year round;
Full-time mothers must take good care of their children, so they stare at their children all the time. There is no time to relax. In fact, you can occasionally let go of work, and there are holidays. Life will be relatively relaxed.
(2) stay-at-home mothers must learn many skills;
No one is born to be a mother, and they must study hard the day after tomorrow. Therefore, a full-time mother is not only a nanny, but also needs to take care of the child's daily life and diet. make corrections and guidance.
(3) Full-time mothers are more psychologically stressed;
The current law protects property before marriage, and property and debts after marriage are shared. Therefore, for a stay-at-home mother, she has no financial resources and needs the support of her husband. If her husband has any accident, then her life will be affected. There will be no guarantees and will be rejected by the family, so the psychological pressure of full-time mothers is very large.
How should families treat stay-at-home mothers?
- Full-time mothers of body size;
It is necessary to clearly realize that raising children is a very hard thing, and we must learn to understand our wife and spend more time with the children after returning home, so that the mother can have a chance to breathe.
- Give mother enough sense of security;
In many countries, if a wife works full-time at home, the economic power in the home is in the hands of the wife, and some of the husband’s salary is even paid directly to the wife’s card, so the wives can be assured to be full-time mothers, so if My wife sacrificed her career to be a full-time mother, so she must give her enough security.