The old man was interviewed by the teacher when he picked up the child from school.

Now primary school students all over the world are busy reviewing for their final exams. But the children's homework is tight, and the parents are still busy with work as usual, so the old man who is responsible for picking up the children has a heavier burden.

A few days ago, I saw an uncle in his sixties who was "trained" by the teacher at the school gate. The old man is the grandfather, and the parents of the child work abroad. He is the one who picks up the grandson and takes care of the grandson's daily life. The child's grades have not been very good. Many homework near the end of the term are wrong, and some homework has not been completed.

When the teacher assigned the homework, he asked the parents to accompany the child to finish the homework and check the signature. The uncle was also very helpless. He said, "I didn't go to school when I was a child, so I could write a few words myself, but I was basically illiterate. I can't do homework either!" The old man was so anxious that his eyes were red.

Seeing what the old man said was pitiful, the teacher had no other choice but to ask for anything else, so he said, "My children, worry about yourselves, I can't take care of the children when they get home." The boy next to him kept his head down. Head, Grandpa couldn't stop sighing, seeing people's heart block in panic.

With the accelerated work pace of young parents, many elderly people have taken on the burden of taking care of the life and study of the third generation. However, with the increase of age and the limitation of educational level, more and more elderly people are more and more unable to take care of their children. The physical fatigue is relieved, but the grievances in their hearts cannot be said.

A friend who is engaged in primary education said that from the status of the children in the class and their homework, she can basically judge who is in charge of the children. Some children often fail to complete their main homework, and never do some extracurricular homework such as handwritten newspapers and electronic homework. This must be the elderly who are in charge. In class, with a dazed face, and the homework can never be completely correct, it must be the old man who is leading.

To this end, she communicated with the grandmother of a student in the class many times, but there was no obvious effect. The old man was also very embarrassed. Usually, the food, clothing, housing, and transportation of the children were already full. The teacher tried to contact the child's parents again and said, "I have been teaching the child for five years, and I have never seen the child's parents. Can you come to the school and talk about the child's study and life?" The reply was: work Too busy to talk to the grandmother of the child.

For a child from such a family, the teacher can only secretly feel sorry for the child in his heart. After children enter primary school, parents need to personally discipline them. For those parents who just want to leave their children to teachers and the elderly, but are "hands-off" parents, the chances of cultivating excellent children are too small.

The teacher also teaches dozens of children, why are the children's learning levels so different? Parents have absolutely inescapable responsibility. Those "children of other people" are excellent in all aspects, this is not natural, it is because they have "parents of other people", "grandparents of other people's family"! Children are their own, and parents are the most important guides on the way of children's growth!