Daughter wrote a whole essay to praise her mother, irritable father was jealous, said good father's love
It is said that the daughter is the little lover of the father's previous life. Before marriage, on Valentine's Day, it has become a new fashion.
However, this father from Wuhan is a bit miserable. His daughter praised her mother in her composition, but did not mention her father at all, which made him "beyond recognition" with jealousy and almost lost his mind. Netizen comments: This little padded jacket leaks air!
Daughter's writing does not mention father, and the whole article praises mother
The dad was 'crazy' with jealousy after reading a piece of his daughter's composition. It turns out that the father, who has always been willing to be his daughter's slave, found that his daughter was singing affectionately to her mother throughout the composition, which was not wrong.
But the mistake is wrong. She completely ignored the part about father's love. Now Bao Dad's heart can't take it anymore. He asked his daughter: "Dad doesn't have love?"
Then I asked my daughter a series of questions, "Where did you get your food, drink, clothes and clothes?" "Where did you get the money for traveling abroad?" "By the way, and you play games to change skins, where did the money come from? What about?"
The daughter kept pursing her lips and smiling, and then firmly said, it was the money that my mother earned! In the face of the embarrassed husband, the wife did not say a word, and she laughed heartily for a long time. In the end, my father made a mandatory rule: This composition must write about my father's love!
Analysis: Why is Dad's presence so weak?
① The mother spends more time taking care of the child, and the father spends less time with the child, so many children "cannot feel the father's love".
② Father’s love is deep. Many fathers are not good at expressing, or are ashamed to express their love for their children.
③ The father is too serious and always gives people a feeling of being unapproachable. Many times children dare not communicate with their father attentively. Especially introverted babies have a greater sense of distance from their father.
④ Some families are "widowed parenting", and the father almost never takes part in raising the baby, which inevitably makes the child feel alienated.
This dad's approach is very "cheerful"
There is a colleague around me who entrusts my father to pick up the courier every time after Bao Ma's online shopping. Over time, the child has a beautiful "misunderstanding". He thinks that my father bought these things for me, and he is very happy.
The mother knows that she will never be lazy again, and every time she will pick up the courier by herself, and then give it to the baby. In any case, this hard-working father has been recognized by his children.
How does a father get closer to his child?
- Experience the child's growth with heart
The baby called Dad for the first time, and the baby began to stumble and learn to walk. When she was able to wear clothes... These growing moments hope that the baby will not be absent and show encouragement to the child.
- Talk to your child about "different" things
Different from the blind care of most treasure mothers, fathers can chat with their children about work, happy and distressed; tell children about history and politics; and guide children to think from different perspectives.
Let the child realize that there is a unique shining point in his father, so that he is more willing to be close to his father and cherish the time with his father.
- Mom needs to prepare lubricant
When there is little interaction between the child and the father, or even estrangement occurs, the gentle mother can come out and act as a lubricant for the two father and son, soothe the baby's emotions in time and resolve the conflict.