Daughter writes a whole article to praise her mother, irritable father is jealous, what about fatherly love?
It is said that the daughter is the little lover of the father in the previous life. It has become a new fashion to celebrate boyfriend and girlfriend on Valentine’s Day before marriage, and after marriage, it is the father who posts about the daughter and the mother who posts about the son.
However, this father from Wuhan is a bit miserable. His daughter praised her mother in the composition without mentioning her father. This made him "unrecognizable" with jealousy and almost lost his mind. Netizens commented: This little padded jacket leaks air!
Daughter writes a composition without mentioning her father, and praises her mother throughout the article
This dad 'goes crazy' with jealousy after reading one of his daughter's essays. It turned out that the father, who had always been willing to be a slave to his daughter, found that his daughter was praising her mother affectionately throughout the composition, which was not wrong at all.
But the mistake was that she completely ignored the part about father's love. Now Bao Bao's heart couldn't take it anymore. He asked his daughter: "Isn't Dad love?"
Then I asked my daughter a series of questions, "Where did you get the food, drink, and clothes?" "Where did you get the money for traveling abroad?" "By the way, you also play games to change your skin. where?"
The daughter kept pursing her lips and smiling, and then firmly said that it was the money earned by her mother! Facing the distressed husband, the wife didn't say a word, and laughed in her heart for a long time. In the end, my father made a mandatory rule: this composition must write about my father's love!
Analysis: Why is Dad's sense of existence so weak?
① Mothers spend more time taking care of their children, while fathers spend less time with their children, so many children "do not feel the love of their father".
② Father’s love is deep. Many fathers are not good at expressing, or are ashamed to express. Their love for their children will not be as straightforward as mothers, and children may not understand it when they are young.
③ Dad is too serious, and always gives people a feeling of being unapproachable. Many times, children dare not communicate with their dad, especially for introverted babies, who have a greater sense of distance from their dad.
④ Some families belong to the "widowed parenting style", and the father almost never participates in raising the baby, which inevitably makes the child feel alienated.
This dad's approach is very "fun"
A colleague around me entrusts my father to pick up the courier after every online shopping. After a long time, the child has a beautiful "misunderstanding". He thinks that my father bought these things for me, and he is very happy.
The mother will never be lazy again after she knows it, and every time she picks up the courier by herself, and then gives it to the baby. In any case, this hardworking father has been recognized by his children.
How can fathers get closer to their children?
- Experience the growth of children with heart
The baby called Dad for the first time, the baby started to stumble and learn to walk, when she was able to wear clothes... I hope that Dad will not be absent from these growing moments and show encouragement to the child.
- Talk about something "different" with your child
Different from the blind care of most mothers, fathers can chat with their children about work, happy and depressed; tell their children about history and politics; guide their children to think from different perspectives.
Let the child realize that his father has unique shining points, so that he is more willing to get close to his father and cherish the time with him.
- Mom needs to prepare lubricant
When there is little interaction between the child and his father, or even a gap, a gentle mother can come out and act as a lubricant for the two fathers and sons, soothe the baby's emotions in time and resolve conflicts.