'Fake filial piety' has become a trend, children are eager to imitate, and parents can only secretly wipe their tears
Now some young people don't want to be filial to their parents. When they grow up and their parents can't help them, they refuse to repay their parents, and even want to abandon them. Sometimes some people don't really want to be filial to their parents, but they don't want to be criticized, so there is a situation of false filial piety, that is, the child looks filial on the surface, but it does not make the elderly feel stable and stable. .
Grandma Qian has two sons and a daughter. After the daughter got married, she seldom returned to Grandma Qian's house. The important task of supporting Grandma Qian fell on his two sons. The two sons were very good to Grandma Qian and took turns taking care of Grandma Qian.
Grandma Qian lived in each of her two sons' homes for a period of time. But this didn't make Grandma Qian very happy, because she felt like a homeless person, she didn't have a family of her own, she had to move around in the family of her two sons every month, and her daughter-in-law would give Grandma Qian looked at her face, which also made Grandma Qian feel the warmth of family affection.
Later, Grandma Qian couldn't take it anymore, and decided to go back to her hometown. Although it was relatively lonely to live in her hometown alone, at least she didn't need to look at her daughter-in-law's face. The two sons did not make any more objections, because they also felt that it was a troublesome thing to support the elderly, and Grandma Qian decided to go back by herself. The latter two sons just send some money to Grandma Qian during the festivals, and sometimes bring some gifts to the door.
There are many parents who want to give all of themselves to their children, but the children do not know how to be grateful. When the parents are old, the children do not know how to be filial, but want more from their parents. Therefore, parents should educate their children well when they are young, and let them learn to be filial.
- Let children understand that adults are not easy
Parents should not only show their happy side to their children, but also let their children know how hard they are at work. When children understand that their current life is not so easy, they can better understand their parents and know how to be filial to their parents.
- Make small demands in daily life
Parents can make demands on their children in their daily life. For example, when you take your child out, you need to say goodbye to the parents, and when you get home, you need to say hello to the parents, and let the parents sit first when eating, so that the children can understand that the parents need their respect. Moreover, parents need to stick to their own principles. When the child makes some unreasonable demands, if the parent does not agree with the child's request at the beginning, after the child loses his temper, he cannot give in, so that the child can understand that he cannot Make unreasonable demands.
- Use family stories to educate children
Parents should take some time to chat with their children and tell them selectively about their difficulties at home, so that through conversations with children, children can experience family affection, and can inspire children's awareness of filial piety to their parents. Parents can also tell their children some short stories of family love, so that children can learn how to honor their parents and the importance of honoring their parents through interesting stories.
Parents need to instill the idea of filial piety in their children in their daily life, so that the children can accept it subtly. Some concepts are not innately learned by children and require the education of parents. Moreover, parents also need to correct their mentality, and they cannot feel that raising their sons and daughters is to allow someone to provide for their own care in the future.