Baoma basks in her husband to wash her feet, mother-in-law leaves a message expressing dissatisfaction, Baoma's high EQ reply is praised

There is always a saying among the old people, "If you marry a daughter-in-law, you forget your mother". When her son has his own family, the old mother is both relieved and a little uncomfortable. She hopes that the young couple can live happily, but she sees the person who hurts the son the most. She became a daughter-in-law, and she felt more or less uncomfortable, just like the fruit of her hard-earned victory had been taken away by someone.

Lina, who has just been married for two years, encountered such a thing. Before she got married, she listened to her mother's advice to respect her parents-in-law when she passed the door. In front of her mother-in-law, don't get bored with her husband. Lina has always been very careful. , I have never called my husband affectionately in front of my in-laws, they are always by my husband's name. Sometimes my mother-in-law is cooking in the kitchen and her husband has intimate actions towards her. Lina also deliberately avoids her, making her husband laugh at her.

Now that Lina is pregnant, her reaction during pregnancy is very serious. Sometimes she sits on the sofa and doesn't want to move. Her husband is more considerate. . On this day, her husband helped her wash her feet again. Lina couldn't help taking a picture and sent it to her circle of friends. Unexpectedly, after a while, there would be a lot of likes, saying that she was so lucky that she was married to the right person.

But a message from the mother-in-law made Lina seem to have fallen into the ice cellar. The mother-in-law said, "It's true that you have married a daughter-in-law and forgot your mother, or you are lucky." If this sentence was said by a best friend, Lina would of course think it was a joke , but this is what my mother-in-law said, so I had to think about it seriously. Lina couldn't help but regret it. She forgot that her mother-in-law was also her friend, so why didn't she know how to block it.

The next question came. My husband also saw the content posted by Lina at this time. He couldn't help but blame her. He washed his feet when he washed his feet. Why did he post it on the Internet? Mom also left a message, if I see my mother, I have to be questioned, thinking how low my family status is.

Lina's worries are different from her husband's. She wants to delete this content, but she is afraid that others will say that she is guilty, so don't delete it. The mother-in-law's message is there, and she can't ignore it. This is really shooting herself in the foot. , Lina couldn't help blaming herself, see if you're so vain next time, right? After thinking about it for a long time, I finally replied, "Mom, he said that he wants to learn from Dad, and he also spoiled me like Dad spoiled you at the beginning." After that, a proud smile was added. After posting, Lina showed it to her husband, Her husband repeatedly praised her for her high emotional intelligence, and my mother doesn't know how happy she is at this moment.

How should a husband and wife get along with their mother-in-law?

A treasured mother said, when my mother-in-law is away, I can bully my husband as much as I want. When I go back to my hometown to see my mother-in-law, I will give my husband some good melon seeds to feed him, and give him vegetables. When my husband speaks, I never refute it. Be a gentle little woman in front of my mother-in-law, a diligent daughter-in-law, and bully him when we come back. The husband still enjoys it and jokes that I am a two-faced person.

The relationship between husband and wife is the most intimate relationship in the world. It is no exaggeration for two people to love each other, but sometimes in front of the elderly, we must pay attention to the sense of proportion.

A wise wife knows how to treat her husband on any occasion, especially in front of her mother-in-law. She must give her husband enough face, so that the mother-in-law can feel that her daughter-in-law is very sensible and virtuous, and that her son has left her and is well taken care of by another woman. This is actually what all mothers feel.

I remember watching a video, a treasure mother said to her future daughter-in-law, please treat my son well in the future, don't give him strawberry butts, apple cores, he is also the baby I held in my hand since I was a child. Therefore, a smart daughter-in-law knows how to save face for her husband and how to handle the balance in front of the elderly, but no one knows or sees how the two get along in private. This is how husband and wife get along, and doing so will also make The husband is grateful and appreciated, and he may be better and more considerate to the other half in private.

How do couples get along with children?

Parents can properly show their love to each other in front of their children, so that they can set a good example for their children and let them know that their parents have a very good relationship. A warm family can give him a sense of security, and can also give him a goal of marriage. Many Parents don’t know how to get along in front of their children, some are on the air and have no intimacy at all, while others can’t control their emotions and always break out into quarrels, all of which are not conducive to the children’s psychological growth.

What should the old man do?

In fact, the elderly should also keep pace with the times. Husband and wife love each other because they are very happy and well-matched. Therefore, the elderly should keep their eyes open. Forget mother, the elderly should know how to take the initiative to abdicate after their children get married. The focus of their lives is changing. The elderly should try their best to turn their attention to the other half, instead of paying too much attention to the lives of their children. Elderly people who can see it will enjoy more happiness in their later years.

Will you show your affection in front of your mother-in-law?