Bao Ma posted her husband washing her feet, and her mother-in-law left a message expressing her dissatisfaction, and Bao Ma's high EQ reply was praised

There is always a saying in the old population, "When you marry a daughter-in-law, you forget your mother". When the son has his own small family, the old mother is both relieved and a little uncomfortable. Turning into a daughter-in-law, I feel more or less uncomfortable, as if the fruits of victory that I have worked so hard for have been taken away by others.

Lina, who has just been married for two years, encountered such a thing. Before she got married, she listened to her mother's advice to respect her in-laws after passing the door. In front of her mother-in-law, don't get bored with her husband. Lina has always been very careful , I have never called my husband affectionately in front of my parents-in-law. They always call my husband by his name. Sometimes my mother-in-law is cooking in the kitchen and my husband makes intimate moves towards her. Lina even avoids her deliberately, which makes her husband laugh at her.

Now that Lina is pregnant, the pregnancy reaction is very serious. Sometimes she nestles on the sofa and is unwilling to move. Her husband is more considerate, so he takes the initiative to bring hot water to wash Lina's feet, and give her this and that, which makes Lina feel very happy . On this day, her husband helped her wash her feet again. Lina couldn't help but took a photo and sent it to her Moments. Unexpectedly, after a while, there were many likes, saying that she was very lucky and married the right person.

But a message from her mother-in-law made Lina feel as if she had fallen into an ice cellar. The mother-in-law said, "You are really lucky if you marry a wife and forget your mother." If this sentence was said by a girlfriend, Lina would take it for granted that it was a joke , but this is what the mother-in-law said, so she had to think about it seriously. Lina couldn't help regretting that she forgot that her mother-in-law was also her friend, so why didn't she know how to block it.

The next question came. My husband also saw the content posted by Lina at this time, and couldn't help but blame her. He washed his feet as soon as he washed them. Why did he post them on the Internet? Mom also left a message. If I saw my mother, I would have to be questioned about how low my family status was.

Lina's worry is different from her husband's. She wants to delete this content, but she is afraid that others will say that she is guilty, so don't delete it. The mother-in-law's message is there, and you can't ignore it. This is really shooting yourself in the foot , Lina couldn't help but blame herself, see if you will be so vanity next time, right? After thinking for a long time, he finally replied, "Mom, he said that he wants to learn from Dad and spoil me like Dad spoiled you", and added a smug smile at the end. After sending it, Lina showed it to her husband, My husband repeatedly praised her for her high emotional intelligence, and my mother is so happy right now.

How should husband and wife get along in front of their mother-in-law?

A treasure mother said, when my mother-in-law is away, I can bully my husband in any way. When I go back to my hometown to see my mother-in-law, I will feed my husband good melon seeds and give him vegetables. When my husband talks, I never refute. Be a gentle little woman in front of my mother-in-law, a hard-working daughter-in-law, and bully him when we come back together. My husband still enjoys it and joked that I am a double-faced person.

The relationship between husband and wife is the most intimate relationship in the world. It is not an exaggeration for two people to love each other, but sometimes in front of the elderly, we must pay attention to the proportion.

A smart wife knows how to treat her husband on any occasion, especially in front of her mother-in-law. She should give her husband enough face, so that the mother-in-law can feel that her daughter-in-law is very sensible and virtuous, and that her son has left her and is being taken care of by another woman. This is actually the mood of all mothers.

I remember watching a video in which a mother said to her future daughter-in-law, please treat my son well in the future, and don’t give him strawberry butts or apple cores. He is also the baby I held in my hand since I was a child. So a smart daughter-in-law knows how to save face for her husband and how to keep a sense of proportion in front of the elderly, but no one knows and no one can see how the two get along in private. The husband is grateful and appreciative, and he may be better and more considerate to the other half in private.

How should husbands and wives get along in front of their children?

Parents can properly show love and affection in front of their children. This can set a good example for their children and let them know that their parents have a very good relationship. A warm family can give him a sense of security and set him the goal of marriage. Many Parents don't know how to get along in front of their children. Some put on airs and have no intimacy at all, while others can't control their emotions and always quarrel. These are not conducive to the psychological growth of children.

What should the old man do?

In fact, the elderly should also keep pace with the times. The husband and wife love each other, which means that they are very happy and compatible, so the elderly should also turn a blind eye and close their eyes. Don't go online just because of a trivial matter. Forget mother, the elderly should know how to take the initiative to abdicate after their children get married. The focus of their lives is changing. The elderly should try to shift their eyes to the other half instead of paying too much attention to the lives of their children. Old people who are open-minded will enjoy more happiness in their later years.

Will you show your affection in front of your mother-in-law?