As the old saying goes, 'If you marry a wife, don't marry your mouth, but if you marry a Han, don't marry Tian Ting Lei.' What is 'Tian Ting Lei'?

Since ancient times, getting married and having children has been a top priority for human beings. Due to market demand, there are naturally many matchmakers. Looking at the face and calculating the date of birth, this fortune-teller's profession came into being. Figure out if men and women are fit, if their faces are lucky, etc. In this historical evolution, many proverbs emerge one after another.

Just like the saying don't marry a wife, don't marry Tiantinglei, it is widely circulated among the people, and such selection criteria have been recognized for a long time. So what is a cockroach, and what is Tiantinglei? Why is there such a person who is not suitable for family? There are many reasons for this.

01 The so-called face

This method of judging a person's character traits has been around for a long time. In China, there are the earliest records of human faces and the Book of Rites, while in the West, there are corresponding records as early as in ancient Greece. In fact, physiognomy is also a subject with rich connotations. The discipline in which you can infer human destiny by looking at a person's facial features.

To the average person, it seems a little mysterious and simple. In fact, it was a popular subject in the early West. In the 1970s and 1980s, some psychologists investigated whether the face could reflect a person's personality and affect the evaluation of others. The physiognomy gradually began to be combined with sociology and psychology, giving more scientific significance.

In China, physiognomy has a more important position in China. This is one of the top five technologies in China. You can judge a person's character or whether there are some potential health hazards from a person's face or physical features and behavior, and you can also infer a person's future destiny. Modern physiognomy also combines anatomy and psychology.

In Chinese history, many heroes have their own characteristics, and many characteristics are considered to be the stage of the emperor, such as Xiang Yu with heavy pupils; generals like Su Qin are bone nose sword ridges; similarly, many great writers in history are also associated with Ordinary people are different, such as Wang Anshi's tiger Gu.

02 upturned mouth

For ordinary people in life, there are also many typical faces that represent the characters of different people. For example, in ancient legends don't marry a twisted mouth, what is a twisted mouth? In fact, the adjective is so vivid that contorted mouth means pout, and some believe the word also describes a woman's mouth that bulges forward.

As for why such a face is not flattering, there are several reasons: First, the pouting action often occurs when people are angry or in a bad mood, and girls who are born with such a face make people feel like they are Is a bad temper, often angry girl. Such a character must not be considered the best candidate for a wife.

Also, if the mouth is more prominent, it can still have a big impact on how people look. In the standard of mate selection, although virtuous quality is the preferred standard, girls still need beauty, and a delicate figure will be pursued by more men. So when you get married, a pretty face will be limited consideration, and a woman with a cocked mouth will be less popular.

In ancient China, Qiaozi not only highlighted this meaning, but also had an exposed meaning. This description also suggests that women like to gossip or talk a lot about others. You should know that in ancient times this practice would be called tongue woman, and for the men of that time, the most disgusting thing was the discord in their family.

The so-called self-cultivation, ordering the family to govern the country, and bringing peace to the world; in order to become a family, a man will naturally consider marrying a virtuous and good-natured woman when choosing a wife. People who like to chew their tongues or talk harshly will undoubtedly add a lot of trouble to their future married life. Therefore, men are respectful in choosing a mate and stay away from the behavior of lip-synching.

03 Heavenly Fortress

Of course, marriage is a two-way choice for two people. Since there are standards for women, there are also requirements for men. For men, in ancient times, women would not choose to marry a man with a heavenly foundation, so what does this mean? What does this face represent? Why isn't it popular with most women?

I'm sure everyone has heard the saying that the sky is full and the earth is round. Such a face means that a person is very happy and has an official life. Today is a traditional ethnic face or a more atmospheric look. So heaven is actually about a person's forehead, especially between one's eyebrows, the central area of ​​the forehead.

The word foundation can also be understood as an image. For example, in life, the basis is the expression of overlapping or stacked objects. The word is related to heaven, that is to say, this person frowns every day, such people are very common in life. Because he frowns so often, there will be deep fine lines in the center of his forehead in the long run.

When people see men like this, they feel like they are people who often work hard for a living and worry about making a living. For women, they all want their husband to be a high-ranking, well-paid, responsible person with a bright future. Such men often do not appear Tianji faces because they are too worried, so in fact, such screening is also the choice of men's family conditions.

In addition, men who frown frequently tend to have some problems with temper and character. They may not have independent opinions on things and think often because they cannot make up their minds. If a man cannot give his wife a rich life in ancient times and cannot take responsibility for solving the difficulties encountered in life, he naturally cannot get the approval of his favorite wife and woman.

04 Summary

Of course, the so-called facial features are not necessarily accurate. As the old saying goes, the facial features are born from the heart. People's facial features are not static, and people who are not beautiful must have a good heart. However, people will show their mentality and personality to a certain extent on their faces because of their life experiences, which is why many ancient masters can infer a person's past experience just by looking at a person's face.

When it comes to marriage, how to choose one's life partner is a lifelong event for everyone. It would be sloppy to deny a person solely on the basis of this kind of cockroach or Tian Ting Lei's facial features. We must evaluate the person's qualities, personality characteristics, family situation and whether the three perspectives of the two people are suitable from many aspects, and finally decide whether the other person is worthy of lifelong trust.