What is the saying of 'a male is concave and a female is convex, if you are not widowed, you are lonely'? Is the experience of the ancients still accurate now?

Modern people are becoming more and more unfamiliar with proverbs. Even people who live in the countryside may not be able to speak a few proverbs. Although there is a common word in the common saying, which is completely in line with the common culture recognized by ordinary people, it is undeniable that there are many great truths and life philosophies contained in the common saying.

For example, if men are concave and women are convex, if you are not widowed, you will be lonely is a proverb that contains great truth. What is the truth? Let's look at the wisdom of our ancestors.

First, male concave female convex

Literally understanding male concave and female convex, simply speaking, it is the different body shapes of men and women.

Every man wants to have a tall and strong posture, and women also want to have a good figure with a forward curve. In fact, men and women corresponding to bumps contain very important connotations and meanings.

1. Male concave

The concave in male concave is a derogatory term, which generally describes that when a man walks, he often hunches or leans forward.

If you look at it from the perspective of personal image, this kind of body form will leave a bad impression on people, especially when young people are looking for a partner, the first impression is very important.

If you explain male depression from the mental outlook, it is first of all the mental decadence of the man. In general, he has a negative feeling and has nothing to do every day. Therefore, there are very few girls to chat with.

2. Female convex

Female convexity generally describes a woman's figure, and every woman wants to have a concave-convex figure.

Being overweight can make certain parts of your body look prominent. According to the current aesthetics, men like thin women.

This sentence is also related to character. Nowadays, many women with strong career ambitions are getting worse in their marriages. why? The main reason is that they are too strong in character and don't know how to respect their husbands, which has dampened their self-esteem for a long time and increased the divorce rate.

Second, if you are not widowed, you will be alone

The widow and solitary in "not widowed" actually refer to a widowed woman or man. It can be found that men have a lower status in the family, while women have a bad temper or a stronger personality, which will lead to unlucky marriages.

In the traditional concept, men are synonymous with masculinity, while women should be gentle and virtuous, and men dominate. If the two are opposite, there will be many conflicts, and even lead to daily quarrels. As time goes by, the couple will be separated, and eventually they will go to the road of divorce.

In fact, it is a traditional family relationship that men are strong and women are weak, while men are concave and women are convex just go against this tradition. In short, if a man is not standing, sitting or sitting, and his personality is too weak and worthless, then they are doomed to live in harmony as husband and wife in this life, and sooner or later they will part ways with their wives.

If a woman eats too much fat and has a strong personality, she is doomed to live a harmonious life as husband and wife in this life, and sooner or later she will break up with her husband.

In addition, in today's society, we often see words such as "female man" and "sissy". In fact, this is the result of society's overemphasis on expressing individuality. This is because people in society correct women for being too gentle and men for being too strong. The result of overkill. No matter what we do or look at a matter, even though it is wrong, we should not be too extreme when we recognize and correct it, nor can we generalize it. We need to analyze specific problems and specific problems.

As the saying goes: men are concave, women are convex, not widows are lonely, it is the ancestors combined their experience, a simple proverb, the truth, can completely guide our life, let us find better and better rules.