As the saying goes: 'The man who bows his head is deep in the city, and the woman who raises his face may be difficult to deal with.'

Human nature has been an elusive thing since ancient times. Many people are good at disguise, but they fail outside of gold and jade. Some people look arrogant and domineering, but they have a beautiful heart, but they offend others by speaking out. But many times, a person's heart echoes his appearance. This is called the heart.

In the process of getting along with people, our ancestors also screened some ways for us to understand people. These methods are general laws of human nature summarized by our ancestors after reading countless people. The editor chose a typical proverb to share with you.

On the surface, a man who usually likes to bow his head is very scheming and has to be careful. In life, it's not hard to find that happy boys are usually more sunny, they never hide what they think, what they say, don't hide it on purpose, it's easy to be with them and doesn't require much precaution.

But boys who are often silent in their lives and like to listen but rarely express their views should pay attention. It is often said that when they are not talking, they like to think in their hearts. While they don't have any opinion on what's going on, they weave their own web in their minds, which is unpredictable.

A woman who faces up and is afraid of difficulties means that a woman who likes to talk with her head held up looks difficult to entangle. As we all know, the ancients' definition of boudoir is gentle, and every gesture reveals subtlety. Therefore, under various family rules, ancient women formed a bowed and reserved look.

Do you still remember Wang Xifeng in "A Dream of Red Mansions"? Smell before you show up, head up and walk, very ferocious and brave, really a difficult master. In life, there are also many such women. They don't care about the opinions of outsiders, they go their own way, and everything will be self-centered. In their eyes, others are foils, and they are kings.

In fact, two sentences of our ancestors vividly illustrate the characters of the people we meet in our lives: one is a man who is calculating and the other is a woman who is stubborn and unreasonable. Getting along with people is an art. We should learn to distinguish what kind of people are worth communicating with and what kinds of people are not suitable for being friends.

Emotional intelligence tends to be more important than IQ most of the time. Emotionally intelligent people have a refined heart and can easily deal with a wide variety of people. However, a person with a high IQ, without a high EQ, can easily offend people and have a hard time on the road of development.

Finally, the editor hopes that friends can walk out of their own social paths on the premise of maintaining their original intentions. The so-called hurt heart can't be without a sense of defense. I hope everyone can have a pair of eyes, and the harvest is like-minded friends.