What is the meaning of the rural saying 'Three addictions arise in the family, and the family loses the family.' What does it mean? What are the 'three addictions'?
The air in the countryside is fresh, the scenery is beautiful, and the life is very comfortable. There are not only simple folk customs, but also many easy-to-understand sayings and old sayings. These old sayings are the experiences of our ancestors through life and production. Compared with the past, the development of rural areas has changed a lot today, and the life of the common people is much better. Not only are they adequately clothed, but they still have some savings at home. Especially if they encounter land acquisition and demolition in the village, they will have more spare money all of a sudden. There are some warnings about these, such as "Three addictions in the family, the family loses and the family perishes." What does this sentence mean? What are the "three addictions"? Let's look down!
First of all, "Three addictions in the family, the family loses the family" means that if there is only one person in the family who suffers from the three addictions of drug addiction, alcohol addiction and gambling addiction, then this person's family will be in trouble, and finally the family will be destroyed. , cannot be saved. Obviously, if there is an alcoholic in a family, who is drunk all day long, does not do proper work, and does not do farm work, then the production and life of the family will definitely be greatly affected, and at the same time, family members will blame each other, complain, and even fight. Naturally, the family of a person cannot prosper; and for those who are addicted to gambling, everyone knows the truth of "long-term gambling will lose". The biggest harm of gambling is to make people lose their minds and property.
Moreover, based on the psychology of gamblers, they always think that they can win back when they lose money, so when they run out of money, they will borrow and borrow everywhere, but in the end they are unable to repay them, so that they may end up with no home. Secondly, drug addiction hurts people more deeply. Not only does it cost a lot of money, but it also damages people’s health and destroys people’s spiritual will. Anyone who is addicted to drugs and can’t get rid of them will sooner or later lead to the ruin of their families. In the intervening years, he became poor and debt-laden. Moreover, we must know that once a person becomes addicted to drugs, it is very difficult to quit. Some people become addicted to drugs, and they can do anything for the sake of drug addiction, which also destroys a lot of people. , many families. Therefore, not only should we not touch these things that are harmful to others and ourselves, but also stay away from such people with drug addiction, as far away as possible, not to have any dealings with such people, and go too close to the next one It will be you if you get slaughtered.
To sum up, the “three addictions in the family, and the family’s failure also perishes” mentioned by the rural people mainly refers to “coveting a glass of wine every day”, “relying on the table if you have something to do”, “being obsessed with the clouds every day”, no matter what. Being infected with that item is a great harm to yourself and your family. I advise everyone to stay away from the "three addictions". Moreover, anything that is easily addictive is mostly harmful to people without any benefit. If you want to be a normal person, you must not be addicted to the above addictions, or you will end up crying without tears; so this saying makes sense, what do you think of what I said? Come and comment below, thank you all.