What is the saying of the saying 'men are concave and women are convex, no widow is orphan'? Is the ancient experience still accurate?
Modern people are increasingly unfamiliar with proverbs. Even people living in rural areas may not be able to say a few proverbs. Although there is a common word in the common saying, which is completely in line with the common culture recognized by ordinary people, it is undeniable that the common saying also contains many great truths and life philosophies.
For example, if men are concave and women are convex, if they are few, they will be alone. It is a proverb that contains great truth. What is the truth? Let's look at the wisdom of our ancestors.
First, male concave and female convex
To understand male concave and female convex literally, it is simply the different body shapes of men and women.
Every man wants to have a tall and strong posture, and women also want to have a good figure with a bulge. In fact, both men and women corresponding to bumps contain very important connotations and meanings.
1. Male concave
The concave in the male concave is a derogatory term, which generally describes a man who often stoops or leans forward when walking.
If you look at it from a personal image point of view, this body form can give a bad impression, especially when young people are looking for a partner, the first impression is very important.
If the male concave is explained from the spiritual aspect, the first is the mental decadence of the man. In general, he has a negative feeling of doing nothing every day. Therefore, few girls chat.
2. Female convex
Female convexity generally describes a woman's figure, and every woman wants to have a bumpy figure.
If you are too fat, it will make a certain part of your body look prominent. According to current aesthetics, men prefer thin women.
This sentence also has to do with character. Many career-minded women are now in poorer marital status. why? The main reason is that their personalities are too strong and they do not know how to respect their husbands, which has long dampened their self-esteem and increased the divorce rate.
Second, no widow or alone
Widows and orphans in widowhood and orphans actually refer to widowed women or men. It can be found that men have a lower status in the family, while women are short-tempered or have strong personalities, which can lead to unhappy marriages.
In the traditional concept, men are synonymous with masculinity, while women's characters should be gentle and virtuous, and men are dominant. If the two are opposite, there will be a lot of contradictions, and even lead to daily quarrels, and over time, the couple will be separated, and eventually they will go down the road of divorce.
In fact, it is a traditional family relationship that men are strong and women are weak, and male concave and female convex just violate this tradition. In short, if a man does not stand or sit, and his character is too weak and unpromising, then they are doomed to not live in harmony as husband and wife in this life, and sooner or later they will part ways with their wives.
If a woman eats too fat and has a strong personality, she is destined to live a life of harmony between husband and wife in this life, and sooner or later she will break up with her husband.
In addition, in today's society, we often see words such as "female man" and "sissy". In fact, this is the result of society's overemphasis on expressing individuality. This is the result of people in society correcting that women are too gentle and men are too strong Overkill results. No matter what we do or look at a thing, even though it is wrong, when we recognize and correct it, we cannot be too extreme, nor can we make generalizations. We must analyze specific problems and specific issues.
As the saying goes: Men are concave, women are convex, and widows are not alone. It is the ancestors who combined their experience, a simple proverb, the truth, that can completely guide our lives and allow us to find better and better rules.