As the saying goes, 'trees are afraid of three shakes, women are afraid of three shakes', does that mean? The wisdom of the ancestors

In our traditional culture, proverbs are not only a part of traditional culture, but also an important expression of our traditional cultural concepts. The common saying originated from folk culture and is also the crystallization of the wisdom of ancestors. Although common sayings are vulgar and short, they contain rich changes and profound philosophies.

As the saying goes, not only cultural feedback, but also people's understanding and thinking about society and customs. For example, trees are afraid of three shakes, and women are afraid of three flutters. In fact, it contains ancestors' thinking and cognition of social phenomena. So, what does this sentence mean?

The tree is afraid of three shakes, and the woman is afraid of three swaying, in which three actually refers to an imaginary number, which means frequent and repeated.

The so-called tree is afraid of three shakes, that is, the newly planted tree is most afraid of wind and rain. Any shaking will cause the entrenched saplings to die. This is why there is a saying that trees are afraid of three shakes.

And women are afraid of three provocations in the same way. In other words, a woman's greatest fear is being constantly teased. There is also a folk saying that strong women are afraid of entanglement, which is the same as the core content of women being afraid of three stalks.

For example, a newly planted tree is most afraid of shaking, because its foundation is not very stable, it is planted soon, and the roots are not tightened. If it is shaken many times by children at this time, or because the wind is not good, the branches on the tree will be broken, or the foundation of the tree will be damaged. In fact, shaking so many times is not only bad for new trees, but also harmful to old trees that have grown for many years.

When a woman faces a man, she may not like this man in her heart, but she can't stand the man's crazy pursuit and endless provocation. In fact, women's fear of three provocations is the same as a good woman's fear of entanglement, because women themselves are more emotional creatures. For them, a man's long-term pursuit can bring psychological touch and satisfaction. They think that this man has always been Giving silently is a responsibility and responsibility, so they are willing to communicate.

But in fact, there are also some disadvantages. For some women, they've never been in a relationship and have never been in a relationship. When they talk about love, they don't care. Also, they don't have any experience. Some men just like their simplicity and childishness, with little tricks. Moreover, they know women's thoughts very well, know what kind of men they like more, and always insist on doing things that make women happy. Finally, they can bring home beautiful women, which gives a lot of opportunities for scumbags.

Now there is another way of saying that this kind of man or woman is called licking the dog. In fact, the word itself has a derogatory connotation, and it is also the best overview of such people. Today's society has become too impetuous, so everyone has become more realistic. After men and women get to know each other, if one party does not take the initiative, but the other party has been giving silently, even if they do not have a definite relationship and accept the kindness of others, they refuse to accept love, and they always take advantage of the other party's appetite and use him. In this way, they will not have good results.

Everyone says licking a dog is stupid, but if the hero of the story became himself, he wouldn't say that. When he meets someone he can't love, he's stuck in it and can't get out of it. He really loved each other so much that he lost himself. For everyone who wants to fall in love, if they really meet someone they like, as long as they give their sincerity, they will win the sincerity of the other party. But if he keeps asking you for something and is unwilling to give a little, such a person will definitely not be able to communicate. By the end of the lick, you really have nothing.

Conclusion: This proverb is a suggestion for the relationship between men and women, don't lick dogs or cheat women's feelings for men, pursue others for a long time, if you don't agree, it's better to let go, and not because you want to play tricks, because there are people outside, there are people outside One day, be careful to fall into the pit.

Love is a very desirable thing for everyone, it can bring joy and happiness, but also trouble and trouble for everyone, but it's all sweet, so it's beautiful , The truth behind this is thought-provoking and needs to be digested and understood, and finally wish the lovers in the world to get married.